My wife cosigned
for a credit card for her son in 2004. His girlfriend charged the card up to the limit, and didn"t make a payment for 8 months. Her credit score went down by 100 points. We are out $3800 plus interest, money we don't have.
My sister cheated me out of $2500 from my father's estate.
My wife wants me to just forget about both these items, I will not tolerate anyone stealing from me. I'm 65 now and planning to go back to work because we don't have enough money to live in retirement.
The worse thing is that instead of helping me she fights against me, throwing up roadblocks every inch of the way. I know that I will be attacked in life, I can deal with that, but what really infuriates me is having to fight her too.
I did do pretty good today though, his girlfriend scream, and cussed at me, putting her face in mine, she even pushed me, trying to provoke a fight. I am proud of myself for walking away and not letting her goad me into a fight.
Still I am really angry with my wife, I did yell at her a little, which I regret, but that is all.I am just learning to control my emotions, including anger, and I don't yet have a month clean. So it is hard to understand why she would sabotage me like this.
Actually I know that she cannot stand conflict, unless it's with me, I don't really think she can help herself.. My chest and stomach hurt because I am soo angry, I know that my anger will maim and kill me if I don't get a hold of myself.
I am just looking for some feedback.
Kind feedback please, I'm trying to settle down, not get more angry.
I read a comment someone wrote to another telling them to stop whining, and that they need to grow up.
That's why I say kind feedback, I understand that feedback isn't always going to be sugar sweet, and that's fine.