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So yesterday my sister passed away and today the pain is even great then yesterday. I'm so beyond numb. I dont know what yo say or do.

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Agora1

Dearest friend, my sincerest sympathy goes out to you at this time. I am so sorry

for your loss. Give yourself the time you need to grasp what has happened. You need

not do or say anything. Is there someone who is making the arrangements or is this

on you? Take it one moment at a time today. Holding you in my thoughts. xx

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Happiness2019 in reply to Agora1

My mom and my other sister we meet later today

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Agora1 in reply to Happiness2019

I'm glad you have the support around you. It's a very trying time.

Don't forget we're just a message away. xx

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Happiness2019 in reply to Agora1

Ok thank you

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LiveandLetLive42

I am so sorry for your loss. That is so terrible. My heart sincerely goes out to you. If you need anything we're here for you <3

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Happiness2019 in reply to LiveandLetLive42

Thank you

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Booklover0219

I’m so very sorry you lost your sister. Grief is a painful and dark journey but once we go through it we can emerge on the other side and we can move forward. I wish you all the very best. Give yourself time. ❤️

Sorry for your loss how old was she ?

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Happiness2019 in reply to lillyofthevalley37

She was 34

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lillyofthevalley37 in reply to Happiness2019

That is so tragic I am so sorry

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Coloradowalker

May you always see her in all that is beautiful❤️❤️

I am so sorry for your loss of your sister. I cannot imagine your pain. I believe in these early days, all you need to do is try and take care of yourself and the family. It is important to eat right and try and get enough rest. Your mind will process thru the grief but often people forget to eat and do basic needs. You have lots of love snd support here. Just get thru each day for now snd take care💜

I’m really sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. I lost a sister in 2009, Dad in 2014, Mom in 2016. Struggling with what’s known as complicated grief. While I can’t offer much as far as advice goes I can offer my sincere condolences.

Deepest Sympathy on the loss of your Precious Sister - and so very young.

Can't imagine what you're going through.

When my brother died , suddenly, aged 55, I was so shocked and angry that the world just carried on like nothing had happened.

So very sorry 🌹 ♡🌹♡🌹

xXx

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Sunandrose87

I don’t know you but I’ll pray for you. We have a hope. Revelation 21:3,4

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NeuronerdDoaty

Numb is normal. I’m so sorry for your loss. I keep saying ‘I need to call my dad.’ It hasn’t been a month.

(((Hugs)))

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Happiness2019

i just want to thank everyone for the out cry of support

if at all possible to get this link shared i would be very grateful my sister left behind a 2 yr old and has no life insurance to help with the cost

gf.me/u/w7rgkb

So sorry for the loss of your sister 🌹🌹🌹

My condolence. Don't force yourself right now. It's not easy losing somebody you love. Do take your time.

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TheHound

What tragic news! My heart goes out to you. There are 5 stages to grief and there is no set order or time that people experience them. Shock, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. It doesn’t matter if your grief was something that you were expecting or a surprise. You give yourself time to go through those stages and YOUR pace. As hard as it is, let yourself feel each one. If you find that you cannot bear it, please find a doctor and/or therapist that you trust to help you work through the stages. Don’t feel like you have to “get over” this grief. In my experience, we just learn how to live with it in a way that we accept that it happened but a piece of us is forever changed.

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