Definitely lonely now

[LucyKe]

Well I just found out my husband cheat 6 months after we got married with a mutual friend & had a baby. I honestly don’t know how this is gonna effect mental

[All_alone]

I'm sorry and I cant imagine how you must feel. Maybe talking to a trusted friend or therapist will help you. Hugs!!

[LucyKe in reply to All_alone]

I’m Gonna try and find a new therapist here, it’s hard to find one with the insurance I have

[All_alone in reply to LucyKe]

I understand. I have an appt in 2 wks with a new therapist. They are hard to find.

[LucyKe in reply to All_alone]

Also hard to get a good one! I have had 3 here already, smh

[All_alone in reply to LucyKe]

It can take trial and error to find one that is a good fit.

[LilyAnnepuppy]

That really sucks. How long are you married to him now? How old is the child now?

[LucyKe in reply to LilyAnnepuppy]

We been together 16 years but married for 2 years & the baby about to turn 1, I’m the only one that didn’t know about this

[LilyAnnepuppy in reply to LucyKe]

Wow. You've been together 16 years? And he did this? Do you two have any children of your own?

[LucyKe in reply to LilyAnnepuppy]

Yep 16 years & this what I get out of it & no we don’t, but we do have kids

[LilyAnnepuppy in reply to LucyKe]

So are you going to hang around and try to work it out, or split? I would be jumping back and forth over the fence about that question. But then again there was a time in my early life I left husbands for less reasons.

[LucyKe in reply to LilyAnnepuppy]

No question I’m leaving

[LilyAnnepuppy in reply to LucyKe]

Good for you. I want to be with someone honest who wants to be with me. I'm sorry you're having to go through this. Hang in there a day at a time.

[LucyKe in reply to LilyAnnepuppy]

I just found out Thursday night, so idk how imma get through this really. But thank you I’m sure I’ll be fine in time

[LilyAnnepuppy in reply to LucyKe]

You will be. Been there. Done that.

[kenster1]

hi sorry to hear that that's a couple of devastating blows for you so soon after marriage hopefully you get a new therapist soon and hopefully support from family and even us on here.i think leaving him is the only way as you as this is betrayal in its highest form.relationships are tough from time to time but cheating takes it to a different level if its not working then go your separate ways rather than making the hurt far worse.

[LucyKe in reply to kenster1]

Thank you so much! I’m going to visit my family for a week, then I’ll back in search of a new therapist. It’s so much more that goes with Him cheating and having a baby & he pretty much don’t care. I guess i can look at it as perfect timing I won’t be taking any toxic people into 2020 with me

[kenster1 in reply to LucyKe]

that sounds positive keep yourself busy over the festive season give yourself no time to dwell on whats happened.out with the old and in with the new come new year in more ways than one.

[DottieLucy]

LucyKe, I cannot imagine the horror you must feel but please do not let his poor choices reflect on yourself. You are beautiful!