all right… Here it is.
2010, was the worst year of my life.
First off, my abusive father decided to pull a gun on me and my mom and my little sister. I was eight maybe years old. I didn’t think much of it but I was terrified I know that. I guess there’s not much else to say about that night except for the police came to the door at 3 AM. Anyways ever since then my parents of been divorced which has been nine years. Things have been “fun” since then.
Since then, my dad has attempted 3 kidnappings, successfully completed 2 kidnappings, kept my sister and me hostage from my mom for 4 hours. During that time, I was called a fat whore, by my step mom, I was called a mistake from my own father, and I was locked in the bathroom for 3 hours.
Also, whenever my step mom was home and my father was at work, she would sit on top of us and bruise our arms and thighs. She would lock us outside and not Feed us for 12 hours. Then when my dad got home, she would say that we were being terrorists...
Right.
I was being the bigger person and, I decided to tell him off. “Dad, I don’t feel safe at your house, and you are a terrible father to my and *little sister*. I am done coming to your house from now on.” Then a turned around and left. After that I didn’t see him for about 2 years.
Of course my dad being my dad, he showed up to a girls beach trip. As we were driving up to the house, his big ol truck pulled up next to ours. He made me feel bad and like I was the reason he had done everything he did. Whatever. I cried for fucking ever that night, because he refused to leave.
A couple years later, here we are, and my dad still says this is all my fault, and he forgets my birthdays, and blocks me though text, Facebook, etc. because this is “all my fault”.
So thanks dad. You are the reason I have depression, you are the reason I can’t go to the beach house anymore. You are the reason I have tried committing Suicide. So thank you. PTSD, Anxiety, and depression, DOES NOT do well with me. Thanks for all the scars, tears shed, and sleepless nights.