REMEMBER YOURSELF. ALWAYS AND EVERY WHERE

[sweetiepye]

In a few short days the atmosphere on this site has dramatically changed from supportive and caring to accusatory name calling and ugly. It's hard not to react to that. It takes time for administration to realize who the real problem is. Kind and caring people are concerned and questioning being here. As always ,it's a few attention seekers with toxic personalities who are stirring things up. So what do we do about it? Nothing! We continue on helping each other , giving support where we can. Those who wish to be abrasive eventually show themselves to be so. We don't have to do it for them.We have a certain amount of power simply by not responding and by using the report button.We can always contact admin. privately in support of each other. I think they figure things out given time. I'm still here and I've been in hot water before. Together. Pam

[Hidden]

I think I totally missed something and I'm always here. I don't want anyone upset. I am staying to support everyone here. Anyone want to pm me and let me know whats up?

[sweetiepye in reply to Hidden]

Read above 2 replies and you'll get the jist of it.

[Hidden in reply to sweetiepye]

Yes I see horrible words that are totally uncalled for but I missed why. I'm sorry. You are great and we need you here. 😊

[sweetiepye in reply to Hidden]

I don't know why.

[Hidden in reply to sweetiepye]

Well you are mature like me and have lived and learned and hopefully will not take things to heart.

[sweetiepye in reply to Hidden]

You are right and I want to thank you for your support. An unpleasantness to be sure. Pam

[Hidden]

First of all that doesn't even sound like Pam, aren't you the one who post really mean comments and delete them just like you did in Sue's post earlier?

[BonnieSue]

This message is a repeat.

URocks, Jen, please don't think sweetiepye was targeting us. She was not. She was referring to other people, not us. sweetiepye is a friend who appreciates JEG and I and wouldn't harm us or you or our names. Please read my pm to you. Be good to yourself and get some rest as soon as you possibly can and maybe you'll see this in a different light after resting. Okay? And thank you for wanting to defend us and being so faithful to us for the time JEG has given to talking with you. Be at rest now, okay?

[123ag]

Something has clearly gone wrong here. I have often read Sweetiepye's posts and found them nothing but insightful and supportive. Hopefully given a little time things here will return to how they were and maybe HU admin can weed out the problem(s)

[Tbine]

Don't let any bullshit here discourage you. Life is hard enough as it is than to have to deal with someone's dislikes or whatever unimportant nonsense that keeps some individuals "distracted" to the very "important" issues that life has to offer. As for me, i just have been through too much of other people's BS to care what ANYONE thinks period. But i ALWAYS maintain a sarcastic humor to it all,. A very necessary coping mechanism in today's world. You just keep on being you.

[sweetiepye in reply to Tbine]

Thank you. I feel chuffed . Pam

[Tbine in reply to sweetiepye]

Lol. What means chuffed?

[sweetiepye in reply to Tbine]

Pleased

[hypercat54]

Scalding water sometimes Pam 😜 ha ha.

I have completely missed what's been going in to and am mystified. I hope it's sorted now though x

[sweetiepye in reply to hypercat54]

I'm not sure I know. An out of no where attack. It is being sorted.

[Sillysausage234 in reply to sweetiepye]

Don’t think the angry ranty person knows what day it is ...impressed by your coping skills Pam 😊

[sweetiepye in reply to Sillysausage234]

It comes from lots of practice.lol