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In a terrible rut with no one to turn to.

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Having the worst 2 years of my life in a complete rut, I'm getting evicted from my home and have to put down my very ill cat soon. I'm in my early 20s I've been dealing with depression and anxiety my whole life due to living with a heart condition since birth and other things. I Just need someone to talk to because I don't have anyone in my life to turn to.

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Hi

So sorry for all you are going through.

How is your cat now? Is he/she still managing to eat or drink anything?

(Sorry but I've only just seen your post).

x

You have got us now and we can tell you that everything changes and you will get through these challenging times.

Do you have somewhere to go after the eviction? Are you in the UK?

Your poor cat. I believe that ending a pet’s suffering is one of the kindest things we can do for them...not that it makes it any easier.

You are only in your 20s. You have your whole life ahead of you and plenty time to learn how to manage depression and anxiety.

Keep posting.

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grovergirl2

Hi. I'm new to group and just saw your post. So sorry for all your dealing with. How soon do you have to move? Sorry your cat is so sick. What is your cat's name? Glad you are able to be with her.

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kenster1

hi sorry to hear of your troubles If your in the uk then council wont rehouse you until your officially homeless only after that they have to rehouse you although you would have to go into temporary accommodation first.not sure though what happens in America or other countries.sorry about your beloved cat could he/she be cared for by family just to you get your situation sorted.all the best hope it works out.

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MRawPR

Hello HawksFan81: You are never alone. If though it sometimes feels like it you are not. We are here for you because we understand and experience what you are going through. There was a time in my life where I was left all alone. My second husband abandoned me after being an abusive husband, (which he did me a favor) and my children all moved far away and I was left alone. Just a few friends that not necessarily were there for me and my job. Not even a pet. I just snapped out of the loneliness with help of my doctors and medication and moved to Jacksonville where I am closer to my children and have a wonderful life partner. So there is always hope. Never lose it.

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pink318

Hello,

I’m very sorry to hear about your struggles. I pray that you can get the support you need and things will go well with you.

I’m sorry that your cat is so sick. How is he/she now?

Please keep us posted. You are not alone. God bless.

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