Struggling over here! A lot going on... bottom line, my husband and I are not getting along. He's not the most emotionally supportive person and I clearly have a mental illness. We've been together for almost 17 years, and have 2 small children together. I have an older daughter from a previous marriage who just left for college. I have a lot of guilt from not doing the right things with raising her. My husband constantly reminds of things I failed as a mother with her as I also dwell on them myself. She's very dependent. But has a sweet sole. And God I love her and miss her terribly right now. Our youngest son is almost 3 and is special needs. Our middle daughter is very bright and wise beyond her years. My husband has trouble with alcoholism. My MIL is also an alcoholic. He and his family have a very strained relationship, just as a side note. They're not good people and my husband has tried to distance himself from them. My husband is very smart and recognizes his problem and has stopped drinking. However, his moods and personality changes frequently. There's a lot of tension and turmoil in our household right now. We will be fine for a couple days, almost tricks me, but then it always cycles back to negative. All I want to do is raise happy and mentally healthy children.
I suffer tremendously with anxiety and depression. My depression hits all time lows and I'm in one right now. I've basically come to the solution that me ending my life is better than divorcing my husband. I don't have a plan so I don't need a crisis intervention at the moment but it definitely feels relieving to eliminate myself from my current situation. I'm not looking for attention, or even any responses in particular. I honestly don't know what I need. I just wanted to get my thoughts out.