Best friend leaving the country

[Indifferentlycalm]

I’m feeling blindsided, i didn’t really ask any questions I just had to leave and go play basketball, I wanted to know when was he planning to tell me I’m not sure if I’m mad or if it’s sadness I’m feeling

[Starrlight]

I’m so sorry. I can see how that could be saddening and maddening. I think I know how you feel, same types of event happened to me like three times. In one case it felt like a bewildering breaking of the heart. 💜

[Indifferentlycalm in reply to Starrlight]

Right now I’m thinking about blocking all types of communication numbers and on social media, might as well burn the bridge. Long distance always end up destroying everything anyway

[Starrlight in reply to Indifferentlycalm]

(((((((((((((((Hug)))))))))))))))))

[Indifferentlycalm in reply to Starrlight]

Thank you for listening

[Starrlight in reply to Indifferentlycalm]

Of course. I can keep listening.

[EleanorRose]

I imagine you’re currently experiencing a whole mixture of confusing emotions.

Don’t say or do anything hastily in response to this - we do things when our emotions are all over the place that we sometimes regret later.

It’s really tough when we lose friends. I lost one of my oldest, closest friends recently, although in different circumstances to you, and I have been through a whole range of emotions from anger to relief to sadness.