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Some days I hate going places because I feel like nobody sees me or they overlook me because of the way today society is

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Sometimes when I’m out and about in the city I kind of watch people who are so oblivious. People are so wrapped up in their own lives they don’t take a moment to look around and see the world around them. Like I always notice the poor homeless man in the alleyway ( and sometimes even strike up a conversation and find out they have amazing experiences and stories) but everyone else just walks by.. it’s a weird world we live in people just seem to pretend they’re the only ones that matter, but everyone matters and everyone has something to share with the world and something to offer... in other words I know exactly what you mean

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I'm glad u understand and I feel the same way. If you're not rich and or pretty nobody sees u or like u.

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Thank you.. what makes people so selfish and self-centered ? I'm with you 100% on this. We live in a very cruel and cold world, which makes it even harder for the lonely depressed and/or the poor. Was society always this snobbish ? I have a feeling that people have gotten much worse when it comes to looking around and noticing those who are down, and reaching out to them.

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I always seem to try to help/ reach out as soon as I see someone is down or not themselves.. but then when I’m down they never return the favor

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They don't want to hear what you're going through but expect u to help them.

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Darknlovely504 in reply to Sad2Bme

It gets us nowhere in life but most will never see it that way. And not many will help u out in need they'll watch u wither away and will not help u. Be glad when God ends the world.

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I hope being on here and seeing there are still some good people in this world gives you some hope my friend.. it does for me

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Sad2Bme

I hear that..I don't even like people anymore..they're very self-centered 😥

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I’ve come to the same realization, I don’t think I like most the people I meet, even some of the people I used to know, I can see the plethora of selfishness and I can’t stand it.. I’m glad to have found this place where people try and help each other out in times of need, I mean we still have our own needs and desires in life but people care enough to reply and see if they can relate, this is how I imagine the world should be (even though it probably won’t ever be)

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It's sad but true. That's why I try to stay to myself yes I get lonely at times but ppl don't act right so I'm about to start mingling etc

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People don't act right..my thoughts, exactly 😔, but hopefully there's a few decent people left. I'm dumping my current friends in exchange for new ones. Ones who will actually care.

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Yea there's some good ones out there.

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I know it seems like maybe not enough, but if I hadn’t found the people here.. today would have been so much worse for me, and knowing there’s a few rays of sunshine in this world make me hope that the sun will rise again ( a friends name on here made me think of that analogy)

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Same way I feel now

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