I’m fighting a battle with my mind again this morning.
My mind wants to obsess about my relationship. Even though I have other interesting things to do. I can go on FB. I can read a book. I can practice using Photoshop. But in my mind, everything comes second to the relationship. Only if I feel absolutely safe and reassured about that, can my mind stop going over it and turn to something else.
I wish I could know for sure, once and for all, that everything is going to be all right. OR that my mind could shut up about it. Obsessing sucks.
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Hi Kat63 yes it is awful to be in battle with yourself all the time. Try to be in the moment just this one moment matters this one moment this one peaceful moment and then the moments will add up and before you know it you’ve conquered the battle you’ve won hugs 🤗
To me it looks like ocd. I know someone who was diagnosed because of her constant obsession with natural disasters and her fear of them. It’s not the classic OCD where you’re constantly washing hands and repeating rituals but it still falls under OCD through the constant thoughts and urges to do something in order to calm yourself down.
Is it about where they are? What they’re doing? What they’re thinking? Or Is it less paranoid and more ‘I can’t stop thinking about him I wish I was with him’ kinda thing?
Honestly don’t know how to help with that because I struggle with the same thing. Broken up now but I never ever spent time to work on myself and do the things I use to enjoy. When I did do those things I was still constantly texting him, I started to forget my own personality because everything was about him.
Do you still have that cbt workbook? Perhaps take a look at it tonight and see if you can find some constructive information about intrusive thoughts.
Resonates with me this 😔 it’s exhausting..I’m sorry you experience it kat.
I’ve not been in a relationship for a while now...and I’ve fortunately got used to it and found a kind of peace around that, but I’m obsessing about my neighbours now and how nosey they are and intrusive, some Days I can’t go out when they are around....i find it similar to the relationship one, but a different scenarios, I’m so sick of it...the exhaustion ..it doesn’t help that we have a communal garden and I live in an apartment which means they are closeby..I have been told I have social anxiety but wouldn’t be surprised if gad or ocd is involved too, I ruminate constantly over it...😔
I feel for you,
I’m going to have some more cbt hopefully and I’m hoping it helps address some of it or give me some guidance on how to cope...I meditate and that helps a little but when it’s something that is there 24/7 it’s difficult to say the least.
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