Hurting

[Depressedmommy21]

I need some advice unrelated to my anxiety for once. I’ve been dating this guy for about 8 months now and he made me cut my male best friend off of 9+ years without any explanation. I blocked him but he’s been leaving me voicemails it’s eating me up I feel so bad I just don’t know what to do he meant a lot to me he’s helped me get through so much I don’t think it’s fair and he has female friends.

[JP6714]

Trust is key in a relationship and it is clear he doesn’t have any. Not good. It isn’t fair and you should not have to deal with that. Him being overprotective and jealous should not give him the power to delegate who you should or shouldn’t be friends with. Tell him no and to go get help for his insecurities

[Depressedmommy21 in reply to JP6714]

I totally agree , he thinks that my friend has “feelings for me” & he says he doesn’t respect our relationship.

[JP6714]

Maybe he does, maybe he doesn’t, either way you and this friend have boundaries I’d imagine and he needs to have respect and trust for YOU to understand that

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Imagines with my happy childhood play in front of my eyes. When time passed and I grew up I was more and more unhappy, with physical manifestation of depression and anxiety. Today I'm lost in this life, feeling that I missed my purpose somewhere in the road of life. Many of you said that we should concentrate on present not on past but the past is the one which define us and in present we have nothing to like, to love, to enjoy.