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My feelings has been hurt by judgement. I can't stop crying. I don't feel this is where I belong.. for thoses of u I've talked to i my heart and prayers

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Imaaan

Sorry to hear that you were judged but it's no reason to leave because there are others that would embrace you as you are. If you want to talk, I can lend an ear

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Hb2003 in reply to Imaaan

Amen or ameen to that 🙏❤️

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Hb2003

I will miss you if you leave ❤️🙏 I think of everyone here as family

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hypercat54

Hi I have looked back and see what you are referring to. I don't think any harm was meant on any side. Sometimes it's hard for the written word to be understood the way it is meant and misunderstandings can occur. But the written word is all we have. You have nothing to feel bad about.

Stay with us and give us a chance please.

Hi ,I don't know what happen to you..but I know the feeling of hurt ofcourse..my heart with you ..wash your face take a deep breath to clear your mind..and if your in need to talk to someone I am here

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jajdkjwjndj

i know how you feel if you want to message me you can maybe i can help you

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Fruitsofspirit in reply to jajdkjwjndj

Thank you. It just got me, because I felt like something wrong with me. I know I came off happy go lucky person. And spelling I fail at. I felt like I was being peace a part by them. I have been having some really good days lately. Then I saw the talking of my conversation. I sometimes I'm all over the place with my words. Thank you ☺️

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Agora1 in reply to Fruitsofspirit

Fruitsofspirit, look at all the members who reached out to you in support and comfort.

This is suppose to be a safe and nonjudgmental place to come and express your feelings

without shame and without any hesitation.

Just know that it's not you. We all have our good and bad days on here and it might have

just been a bad day for someone. I'm hoping you are going to stay. Breathe :) xx

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Fruitsofspirit in reply to Agora1

Thank you so much. I'm trying really hard to not let it have such a control on. Me. This has been something my granddaughter has done to us but mostly me. I fail spelling and English grammar in grade and high school. When I try to express my self, I'm all over the place with my words. Today in my other group I found myself rereading before I would post. I don't want to feel this way. I really injoyed this group.

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Agora1 in reply to Fruitsofspirit

Hi ...This site is a place for us to be ourselves. As the words come from our heart

they do not get scrutinized if a word or two are misspelled. This is about emotional

support and not who spells the best x

Having been anxious myself, I certainly understand being all over the place with my words. It's a part of our over sensitized nervous system and our overwhelmed brain

that makes us want to get everything out at once. Sometimes w/o taking a breath lol

I hear you new friend. Don't worry you are doing just fine. :) xx

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Nettekin

Please don't feel judged. No one has the right to judge anyone else for the way they write. I did try and defend you and that chat has now been shut down. Hopefully only the people who truly care about listening to you and helping you will reply to you in future.

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Fruitsofspirit in reply to Nettekin

I did notice. That you so much. I'm grateful.

I understand your pain.. I’m sorry for what happened. That’s why I don’t open up as much publicly because it’s hard to be vulnerable and have people comment on it. I will always be available as a friend if you like, take care.

Easy for me to say

Easy for me to say

Try not to listen to their unkindness or misjudgment or words

U hurt because ur kind and we value that

Please stay I will need ur insights and help me take care of people I care about. U can help

Me

Pleeese. I’m soo sorry

Pleeese stay

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Fruitsofspirit in reply to

Thank you from my heart. I'm still with the group trying. again thank you

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dearest woman.......as sooooo many people have reminded me time and time again....there is noooo failure here......literallly.....this is where we all can come and find our felllllllwwwow shippp with dear freinds and kindred spirits.......many many manyu peple have been here for me here.......and helped keep me going.......i can tell u .....they.......would be heartbroken if u left or did not feel welcome....i know them ....they would literally be hartbrikllennnnn ...........they have forgiven me for venting time and time again....

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dmt1121

This is certainly no place for good spellers because I wouldn't be here otherwise. I always have typos. The only way I can catch them is with the auto spell check! For some reason this is my favorite spelling of the word "teh" (the)?

This should be a place to be happy or sad and anywhere in between! We are here to support each other's good moments and teh bad ones too. This is our lives and sometimes they can be pretty brutal and sad, so please hang with our gang. It's all about taking that next step.

It may be a step for that day or one that leads us to somewhere better on our journey. Stay well and stay in touch.

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Fruitsofspirit in reply to dmt1121

I have problems on how I word my words. My spell check put out words that I didn't. The keyboard is small 🤣 . My family has made fun of me for years. Thank you for message uplift.

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speaking for everyhone...this is the ultimate group.....ultimate support group.....everyhone has beeennnnnnn incredddddilblyhyyyy paitnet with memmmmeeeeeee and uncoditnional as it should be and our horses and animlas......we want evyerone to feel welcome and not rejectsed as we are trhe same....i have said all kinds of things and luna and tons of tohers constantly reassure me over and over again....its ok brig......ur safe here brig we wonta hate u brigetc...

we dont care about the small stuff ......this is the place w e can vent share whatever......this is

our

group......including all of us

me u everhone.......

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Agora1 in reply to

We so care Brig :) xx

in reply to Agora1

yes................u do............off eh charts...............im totrally in awe

just beyhond words.............thank u............

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