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Hey guys. I told you about my child's father kicking us out. Times are hard right bow because I thought we had a future together and I had to realize hes a fucking narcissistic a hole.. this sucks so bad. I miss him. My anxiety is horrible. My depression sucks. What is life right now....

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AlexisKY

If he had the nerve to kick you out, during your lowest point (suffering from anxiety and depression) then you definitely deserve better. While sometimes it may be a lot on someone else’s shoulders, when your loved one is suffering from mental illness/diseases, you NEVER turn your back on that person. I’ve been brushed off for my anxiety and OCD before, and it hurts, but if I was to be in your shoes, I’d be torn. You’re not alone, you have this wonderful community and we’re here for you. Just please KNOW YOUR WORTH. If someone REALLY, loves you, they will stick by your side through the WORST, of times. Remember that!! You DESERVE THE BEST!!!

Yes, it can be very very difficult to say the least.

I am surprised how many people pass our issues off.

Remember he left you when you needed him most, so that should be a true sign.

I truly believe that good things happen to good people.

Hang in there!

Bryan

You poor thing!!!! Hun you will look back on this years from now and realize your strength is incredible.

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NoNo19

Smh. I'm in the EXACT same situation! Only thing is, I'm married! Instead of my spouse being there to support me with our newborn baby and possibly some issues with postpartun, he did everything possible to get rid of me; threw me in mental hospital back to back, put out a restraining order so I couldn't come back to the house ( never touched him btw), changed the locks, threw my belongings into my vehicle upon returning from said hospitals and pretty much gave me the big F U! I was homeless for close to a month until I could go to court for the restraining order to get it lifted and shortly thereafter, reclaimed the house by having to break back in to MY marital home while he was at work. He left to his mother's, took my child and if doing everything possible to continue to put me in a state of upset and get custody of my child. Sounds like a movie hunh?? Needless to say, I feel you. Even if you can claim a small victory, like getting your own place, a new job, a breakup party, etc, let that victory be yours and celebrate it! In the meantime, do what you gotta do. Food stamps, section 8, moving back home with the folks, whatever you gotta do to survive. Can't promise it'll all work out ( as I'm still in the middle of my own life story) but it's a start! 😉

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OceanAndSun

This too will pass. It is his lose. Stay strong. Focus on yourself. Build a career. This is where you need to grow bigger than him. The guy should regret. Stay strong dear.

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