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Inappropriate Language - Community Reminder

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We would like to remind all our users that we do not allow the use of bad language on the ADAA Community Site.

We recognize that people use various language to portray their emotions, however, our User T&CS's state that "contributions must not: contain any material that is obscene or offensive". There is a large number of users on this site, resulting in a large variety of different backgrounds, different levels of tolerance, and different perceptions of offensive language.

Communities need to remain safe spaces for the diverse membership while also balancing freedom of expression. For this reason, posts containing language that may be offensive to other users will have that language edited - either by removal or through blacking out with the use of asterisks. Our policy of editing this language strives to maintain the balance between permitting users to portray their emotions through their choice of wording while avoiding offense to others who are reading. A post will only be deleted in entirety if it contains offensive language or sentiment directed towards another person.

Thank you for your understanding.

The ADAA Community Administrative Team

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fauxartist profile image
fauxartist

It's sad that this kind of a post has to even be put up.....we are all adults.

Maybe we should have the over 18 version, or a rating system for those that are delicate in nature. I understand the 'F' word may be offensive for some, but some cultures and people don't care. So maybe we should have a list of what words we can and can't say....like on TV....they say H*ll, B"ll*h*t, D"m*,and S**t on regular TV, so what is okay to say here?

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DistressedPoe in reply to fauxartist

Y'know I think the thing is that...bad language can be a trigger for some people. Even adults. Some just aren't comfortable. It's kind of given that in a setting where there are anonymous people of varying ages from all across the world, that we need to respect their boundaries.

I know it's a bit of a hassle. I swear a lot too but I also realized that many people are not comfortable with certain words. Since we're on a site meant to comfort people, we should be considerate about their feelings while still finding a way to express ours.

I mean, I'm not trying to sound rude or anything I understand how you feel. But...I'm a teen that swears every second of the day. I don't find it hard to refrain and speak formally for the comfort of the reader. So...I suppose it really isn't that hard.

I mean, people in offices are adults too. You don't cuss in official letters or in professional settings, now do you ?

I suppose you could just curse in private messages. That's what I do after I ask the person if they're comfortable with it.

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mrmonk in reply to DistressedPoe

Words (all of them) are the building blocks of communication and expression in a civilization. If language is a trigger now, then we're all f***ed.

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kenster1 in reply to fauxartist

I remember our geography teacher saying bxxxxxd wasn't a swear word.two days later my friend said sir you are a bxxxxxd thinking nothing would happen and he got suspended for three days.

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tmjourney in reply to kenster1

This made me lol 😂 😭

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kenster1 in reply to tmjourney

yeah my mate looked all bemused saying sir sir you said bxxxxxd wasn't a swear word as he was being pulled out of class by his big ears.

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Sillysausage234

Sometimes there are no other words to describe constant suffering...🤔..ohh fiddlesticks what another bad day and no one is answering the phone on the suicide hotline

in reply to Sillysausage234

I like that..fiddlesticks...good one Alan...to mars and back!

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Sillysausage234 in reply to

Really releases pent up stress if you say it loud enough

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tmjourney in reply to Sillysausage234

Alan this made me lol too 😂😂 The fiddlesticks got me

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melbrown in reply to Sillysausage234

LOL 😂 I might get cheeky & say "fiidlesticks" next time at group therapy. Might it a few laughs, people swear all the time there.

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to melbrown

Hope I’m not leading you astray Mel 😊

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Marshall64 in reply to Sillysausage234

You're a bad influence on this community. Very, very bad. 😋

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Marshall64

It’s mr monks fault...and that faux the artist

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mrmonk in reply to Sillysausage234

Well, for what it's worth, when I first joined this site, I briefly considered the username, "mrbadexample," but thought better of the idea out of deference to the original "Mr. Bad Example," Warren Zevon:

youtu.be/24mqb-IAHfo

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Sillysausage234 in reply to mrmonk

😀

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melbrown in reply to Sillysausage234

lol yup Alan you are a trouble maker 😅💛

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Sillysausage234 in reply to melbrown

youtu.be/o89dGtwRU6E

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Sillysausage234

Shit ......I’ve left the kettle on 😬☕️

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Sillysausage234

😂outch im splitting again...

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Sillysausage234

🤣🤣

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