Seeing others suffer

[anich11]

Yesterday I learned my 30 year old sister has been contemplating suicide. She lost her husband in November from lung cancer he was only 28 years old. She has had a hard time coping with the loss, I have talked to her and recommended a professional grief counselor or grief support group. This makes my heart hurt for her.

[Sablegirl]

I’m so sorry to hear that your sister’s in such pain & anguish. I know how it is to get very deeply depressed after the loss of my daughter several years ago. Therapy has helped & grief therapy too. I’m going to a support group for grief. I sure hope things get better soon!

[Hidden]

That is real sad to hear. My sister lost her husband 20 years ago. She was contimplating suicide too. She went through all the steps of grief and it just took time, she moved on. It was not easy. Losing a loved one is so sad. Google the grief steps, maybe it will help.

[Mumma_h]

That's so sad. I bet she's glad to have you in her life ! It will take time and she will find love again. All you can do is be there and comfort her. Comfort means the world when you're grieving

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear that. My sister too lost her husband to cancer at a young age. All we can do as relatives (and friends) is provide as much emotional and practical support as possible. I agree with others that counselling/therapy would help her and maybe also her doctor could offer some help (?) My sister has now found happiness again and I'm sure yours will too in time. Take care everyone.

[dogginess]

Suicide is way too permanent and while she's suffering with grief and perhaps other mood problems, the pain is temporary. Help her try to understand this if you haven't already . I have felt suicidal many times. I have struggled with severe depression on and off for decades. Futhermore, does anyone really know what's on the other side ?

[No1wthayla]

There is a bereavement support group on HealthUnlocked. You might also post there. I love the support I get from these groups. I feel less anxious knowing there are folks here who understand and genuinely want to help.

[pink318]

Hello Anich,

I’m sorry to hear about your sister’s loss and her struggles. I hope she will get better with the help of grief counselor. One of my sisters is struggling with health anxiety so I can relate to how you feel. Seeing my sister in sadness makes me sad too.

Praying for your sister that she will overcome the loneliness she is going through. She is blessed for having you. Take care, God bless.