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Alone we are not!

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To this day, being alone has become a normal routine on my behalf. I understand many of you may fear being alone, yet what if it was meant to be that way?

Being alone can give you different insights of life itself. Having a much better understanding of it, yet still wondering for what reason. A reason only we ourselves hold, and for certain will find, as to already found.

It is a way of more specific learning with results many may not understand resulting with the feeling of being isolated when isolation may not even be among us.

One thing is a fact though, we are not alone. Plenty of us out there are here today. I am one out of the many throughout society. Whatever your distance may be your presence is felt. With your presence being felt your words are also heard.

Keep being who you are in knowing you are not alone out there.

We are one, as to we are many.

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Sometimes I feel fortunate that I have my Wife and dog Pax, we always have each other to bounce of ideas, even when we do not talk to each other we have company.

However life is more problematic if we need to make GOOD FRIENDS.They can be as rare as Hens Teeth. Given that not having the companionship of others can be hard pathway to follow. However some times we have no one around to compare life choices with. We need to remain at peace with our own actions and companionship

BOB

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Great to know you each have each other. Such a priceless part of your life. I always praise such, as to am happy for you.

As to finding a good friend you are correct. They are very hard to find and are rare. Since such is a fact we must find our true selves within and then we found our answer to much of life. Found our path and who knows, as we go forth this path we may run into one who is in our same position with the same understanding as to acceptance of who they are. Strong inside with a good spirit. When such happens we will know. It will be felt.

Thanks for your reply. 😊

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Wow well said! My dog is my best friend and gives the best hugs in the world!

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“We need to remain at peace with our own actions and companionship“ What if we were never at peace with ourselves and regret our actions because we’re self aware enough to know that our own stupidity led to our current situation and disabled us from taking further action? How can you learn to love yourself after ruining your life? I’ve read so many books and watched so many YouTube therapists discuss this topic and it didn’t get through to me! I was married at 18, single for 6 months as a single mom of a 1 year old boy, then I met my 2nd sons father through mutual friends, he moved in with me way too fast and we had a child - we broke up 100 times before the last one that left me guilt ridden and terrified of the man I’m with now, I want to be codependent no more but no book is getting me there??? Any advice? Counselors are too expensive but many do free side work on YouTube and are willing to help individuals who reach out through their channel.

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