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So basically I was doing so well and I was feeling a lot better and now I just feel back to how I was a few months ago. And really I just want to talk about it here because I feel like I’m ruining so many good friendships by being sad all the time. Life is so hard and I just wanna have fun and fall in love and see the world. I’m almost 17 so even if I was fully okay those things wouldn’t be entirely possible, but my dad says daily “you have the world ahead of you” but I don’t because I’m sick and I’m stuck.

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Times from how you felt in the past can show up again out of nowhere. You are not ruining any friendships. If any of your friends show no concern or are not willing to help you out then it is them causing the loss of friendship.

Life itself was never meant to be easy. Whatever problems which come our way were brought to us because we can get through them, unlike others who may not.

You are no doubt a strong person from within. Smart and life may for the moment seem hard for you. Yet you must understand and know you will get through this.

You may have the world ahead of you, but remember you will always have the world within you too. When you find love you will then meet someone who is the world to you. As I like to put it, you then are traveling around a world with someone who is the world to you.

Try your best not to look in the negative direction all the time rather try to find the light within you and be positive about yourself as to what is ahead for you.

I believe in you and you must believe in yourself as well. 😊

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I love this so much, thank you for taking the time to give me a little inspiration ❤️❤️

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I agree with Brainstorm17. Life is a rollar coaster full of ups and downs. We have to learn to take the good with the bad and realize that our life is a cycle of seasons. It is always changing. It really is all about our perspective and how we look at things in life. Learn to dance in the rain and know that it is really hard to ruin true friendships. True friendships will stand the tests of time. Don't worry so much about the friendships. Start thinking about who you are, what you want out of life, your gifts, your passions, etc and start making plans to do a little something each day that will help you reach your goals. It can be talking to someone in that field, going to the library and doing research, or writing your thoughts down in a journal. I know it is a cliche but life is truly what you make or don't make out of it. You can make the best out of it one step at a time.

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