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Anxiety disorder is like a big magnifying glass.

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A nervous system sensitised by high anxiety makes all our problems and worries seem ten times bigger than they are. Every headache must be a tumour. Muscular tension in the chest must be a heart attack on the way. A stomach ache must be cancer of the colon. Even the normal concern not to die before our time becomes magnified into a feeling of impending death.

That old quack Doctor Google is only too willing to confirm our worst fears.

Even when we go for medical tests and scans and doctors say we're fine, there's still a tendency not to believe them. We think they must have 'missed something'. So we continue fearing the worst and over sensitive nerves feed on fear. This causes more bad feelings, anxiety and depression and so the vicious circle rolls on and on. Until we say Stop!

Until we say we've had enough of fearing the worst all the time. Had enough of fearing non-existant outdoor threats that stop us leaving the 'safety' of our home. Not willing to put up with the fear of wondering when the next panic attack will come.

No matter how ill you feel everyone can find recovery or respite. What works for one may not work for another. But there's a whole bunch of solutions out there: medications, talking therapies, self help books and YouTubes. Search and you WILL find.

People with anxiety and/or depression are some of the bravest people on this planet. They're also among the strongest because despite their burden they still carry on looking after families and holding down jobs.

You are all heroes and heroines, you should have a chest full of medals for your acts of courage and your power to endure. Don't you ever forget it for one minute.

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Dani87

This made me teary- so much truth to what you have written. We sometimes forget that we are actually brave.

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Sandy1710

And all my chest is full of is pain and flutters. Where’s my medals? Thanks Jeff.

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Jeff1943 in reply to Sandy1710

They're on the way over in a taxi, Sandy🤗

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pink83737

Wow, this is so true.

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Timmypliskin

Well said, and oh so true...

Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts.

Hats off to this gentlemen. It’s all true infact I can relate to this. I’m a beast and I can win this fight. We all can!

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guynfl2chat

I completely agree. When we go to the doctor our BP might higher then normal and we have to explain that we are anxious. In my case, 1 small blood test number slightly out of range freaks me out and I over think it (even though the doctor said its ok). Borderline doesnt mean a problem. Medical anxiety is so common because of all the advertising about diabetes, heart attacks, cholesterol, depression, performance and skin conditions. I think everyone has seen the ads and thinks.. i might have that!!!

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Jeff1943

Too true guynfl2chat, twice a year I get a print out of all my bloods, I immediately compare it with the last one and the one before that. Bad move. I must remember your words: "Borderline doesn't mean a problem". I like that.

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1973m

Wish there was a love emoji for this jeff1943 !

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