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Need advice before it starts my anxiety

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I haven’t been on here in a while but I guess I’m back. Anyway this might sound stupid what I’m about to explain but it triggers really bad anxiety so I need advice. It seems like every time I like a guy and then we get to a point where we may actually start dating i feel like I don’t want it anymore. Like idk if it’s bc I’m afraid of commitment or anything but it stresses me out. It seems like I want it really badly and then my opportunity comes and I want nothing to do with it.. does this happen to anyone else? It stresses me and I feel like a horrible person bc I like to please everyone also all my friends are getting married and stuff and I’ve never had a boyfriend also how am I supposed to get married if I keep doing stuff like this and running away from relationships?

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Hi! It sounds like you are just plain & simply scared. Instead of looking at it like a commitment maybe just take it day by day? Tomorrow isn't here yet. Gee I hope this helps in some way. Love, peace, light, joy & hugs!

You don’t have to do it “right” to date... it can be an opportunity to learn more about yourself and being in the world. It might or might not work out, but it could be neat. Speaking from experience!: It’s easy to see all the reasons not to do something. Sometimes it’s worth it to just “give it a try”... wishing you all the best and sending peace!

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