Looking for support

[catsandcoffee]

So I just joined this hoping to find some form of support from people who understand the struggle of depression...feeling exhausted of living lately...

[LovelySnow]

Hi catsandcoffee. There are lots of kind and empathetic people on here, I have found. I hope you find the care and support you need - here and in your "real" life, too. Yes, I agree depression can be exhausting - we all need support.

(I like your username. :))

[catsandcoffee in reply to LovelySnow]

Thanks for reaching out.

[LovelySnow in reply to catsandcoffee]

I've been depressed before. Are weekends harder for you? I know they used to be tough for me sometimes.

[catsandcoffee in reply to LovelySnow]

Most times weekends are easier just because I don’t have to go out and be around people. Sunday nights tend to be the hardest for me though..just knowing i have to do it all over again is so hard.

[LovelySnow in reply to catsandcoffee]

I hear you...

[catsandcoffee in reply to LovelySnow]

Plus my husband struggles with depression as well and we are having a hard time supporting each other this weekend...i feel so alone..

[LovelySnow in reply to catsandcoffee]

I'm so sorry. I am currently single so I can't speak to being in a relationship like that, but I've had close friends and family go through depression. We usually needed space and time and to seek others for support. It seems like you are seeking support.

[catsandcoffee in reply to LovelySnow]

Yeah, I agree. It’s just hard because he’s been my best friend for 6 years so he’s always been my support. Now that we’re married I feel like I need outside support as well. I’m trying..it feels safer and more comfortable alone and in my sadness but I know that isn’t helpful.

[LovelySnow in reply to catsandcoffee]

That has to be so hard, yeah. And I think I know what you mean about feeling safe in your sadness - I remember feeling that way. Good way to put it. But you're right, reaching out is more helpful. I'm glad you found this group.

[LovelySnow in reply to catsandcoffee]

I'm "signing off" for now. I hope you and your husband can find good support. As many have told me and as I'm sure you've heard before - just take one day at a time.

Thinking of you both & sending you hugs.

[catsandcoffee in reply to LovelySnow]

Thank you so much. Same to you!

[LovelySnow in reply to catsandcoffee]

Thanks.

[bonkers65]

We understand I promise you. And you will get some support here.

[catsandcoffee in reply to bonkers65]

Thank you so much. I have been looking for a support board like this for awhile and have been so scared to join one. I usually don’t talk about my depression with anyone and I don’t have any friends to share with so this is new for me. Thanks for being welcoming.

[Hidden]

Hi and welcome..I understand..

[catsandcoffee in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. Honestly..that’s what i needed to hear today❤️

[Taylorsunshine]

Hi, I've only been on here about a week myself. From what I've seen, there are some very kind, caring, thoughtful & non judgmental folks on here. There has been 2 post so far that really resonated with me & changed my outlook for that day ! Welcome

[catsandcoffee in reply to Taylorsunshine]

I hope I can find the same! Thanks for the welcome.

[froggymom88]

Hi catsandcoffee. I hear you about Sunday night that's when the fear and anxiety start to creep in. Find a good, positive mantra to repeat often. "I am good and whole. All will be well" Find some past positive experience and focus on that when the depression comes. Hang in there. All will be well.

[Hidden]

Depression can be exhausting. I commend you for being brave and sharing your feelings. You are heard and never alone.