Bad person

Why is it people who are happy want to make people who are trying to be happy and positive down and make them feel like they are worthless unclean and haven't got a f**king brain cells to care about anyone and make you feel like giving up and saying you win the little voices win and its timeto curl up and down

[hypercat54]

People who are genuinely happy want others to share it and not pull them down. I know I and my friends are like this. I think people who want to pull you down are the ones with the problems so keep toxic people out of your life as much as you can. x

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

Bit hard when the Vail toxic person is my ex wife and the mother to my daughter's

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

Well do you need to talk to your ex when seeing your daughter? Take her out instead or to your home and keep all conversations to a minimum. My sister was in this situation with her ex and he drove her mad. She arranged to have the minimum contact with him and just got on with her life. x

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

Am trying to get on with my life but when I think life is good she manages to bring me back down and f**k it up as al

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

She can;t do anything to you if you refuse to let her. Just see your daughter and don't have anything else to do with her. If she starts arguing or making your life difficult don't respond (hard though it is) but ignore her. It sounds like she is trying to get a reaction out of you so don't rent her room in your head. Just concentrate on your daughter as she is the one who is important. x

[Ida1]

I know how you feel. I recently had two wisdom teeth pulled a few weeks apart. A co-worker diminished my pain by saying she had 4 teeth pulled while taking care of her one year old so I should suck it up. People want to diminish your pain and accomplishments. It makes them feel better about themselves. Never let someone steal your shine.

[Hidden in reply to Ida1]

And pain is so individualized! She doesn’t sound very empathetic...forget her!

[Benny3221]

Yea I notice this a lot! When I was trying to be happy it angered others almost as if they love seeing someone down in the dumps rather then seeing them happy

[Hidden]

I don’t think that’s the case, Lordzeus. It sounds like you’re referring to bullies, not happy people. That may just be how you feel when you’re around happy people. Wishing you peace of mind 🌺🙂🌺