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Respect your energetic needs

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The fact is, not everyone you meet is on the same level as you. Some people have an energy that drags you down. Some people can lift you up but others can distract you by being in the same room because of their negative vibe. Usually, people like that are caring a lot of anger,pain or frustration with them. So, if you are highly sensitive to energies like me, you can feel that immediately. Not all people are compatible with you, and you are not compatible with everyone, and that’s totally ok.

If you learn how to respect your energetic needs, you know who these people are and will be able to figure out quickly the difference between a love-sucker and a love-giver. They either raise your vibration or they don’t. So, surround yourself with people that make you feel special and good about yourself. Surround yourself with love because you deserve to be loved.

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Agora1

You're a true gem Ladybird

I enjoy reading your posts :) xx

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Thank you so much. 🥰

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caroash

You're so right,I've noticed too that I'd I'm about to be with someone like that I start feeling anxious ,like a warning sign. Also if you're kind and a good listener some can take advantage of that and they end up dumping on you and you quickly feel they're not interested in you at all and you can start to feel like you can't talk about yourself.

I'm sensitive to this as well. Thanks for sharing👍

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Starrlight

I love love loooove all of your posts. They speak to me in a beautiful way.

What do you think we should do when living with someone with a very strong negative energy when you have no choice but to be around them? I try to ignore or do something positive to counteract the negative in the air.

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Good question?! I think I would try to see if there is anything I can change about the situation or maybe considering getting out of this situation once and for all. I would start to shift my perception and see the situation through the lense of love. Loving and respecting your own boundaries are key.

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Through the lease of love ...I love that for situations in which we can’t get out of at the time. Loving and respecting boundaries, yes! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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Starrlight

Do you do energy pulling practices by any chance?

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Hmm, never heard of it. Would you mind explaining? I do cut the energetic cords if necessary.

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Energy pulls are an exercise similar to guided meditations. They teach you to work with the universe and learn how to move energy through the universe in different ways to rearrange the molecules to bring you what you desire. I just found reading of this interesting and it made me think of you.

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Hi! Mind if I butt in?

First of all, hello!

Second of all, this sounds really interesting! What would I google to find out more about it? Are there any YouTube videos on it? What's your favorite color? (you can disregard the last one; it's bedtime, my legs are not off to a good start and I'm worried. I get silly when like this)

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You can search ‘energy pulls’ and ha ha my fav colors are green and red. What is yours? :p

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Thank you!😊

Mine's pink.

I definitely agree and resonate with this so much. I'm glad that someone was able to sum up literally how I feel when I step into a room full of negative people, due to their heavy emotional baggage. You're right some people just want to bring you down and I've always been so sensitive to these energies as well. How do you manage to stay calm when you're surrounded by people like this?

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Kainan

💯 agree. You notice it quite quickly too. Though I guess people can have different energy vibrations throughout the day or week too.

Well said. What about people who think they are positive but are really negative self centered attention junkies and try to spew their fake positive energy everywhere?

Hey look at me I’m positive and have a tattoo that says “love” and I tell everyone how positive I am so that means I’m positive right?

I think half of us are depressed because we see how fake people have turned into for likes and shares and we are hyper sensitive to this loud world of me me me attitudes.

Thank you for sharing

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That is really in issue these days. People pretending their happy and they have it all. Especially on social media. I have cleaned up my social media accounts. I only follow and engage with uplifting and inspiring people. If I feel their happiness is a fake (you can usually tell by the vibe you are getting), I simply unfollow or unfriendly them. We all need to protect our energies carefully. There are way to many fake it until you make people on social media these days 🙄. Also trust your instincts when it comes to people.

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Ah agreed I’m very cautious on social media and around many others in general. Perhaps we struggle so much because so many around us seem to feel that life’s purpose is about glamor and shoving your successes in others faces. Pride is one thing. Ego is a killer

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So true its a ridiculous now.so called self made celebrities even through face book these days a dont do any social media for that exact fact can make you feel that were not upto par when really it's these for a better word attention junkies.👍

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244624

Hi

Again a lovely insightful post ,I found my energies sucked out by certain people and somehow felt guilty for letting this happen me but recently having done some rebalancing of my needs I have found the courage to cut off from negativity in others, its hard work keeping positive and to maintain as best I can I dont feel selfish when I walk away from those who don't enhance my heart.

There are loads of people whose light shines honestly and they are now my world 🌎

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