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Mrs Vanberg invited me for tea

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Surround yourself with older people, they have this safety feeling i don't know how to explain it. I really don't like tea but she also promised me freshly baked chocolate chip cookies. She talk while i listen, listening to her is safe, it's just me and her and spidey, She said 90 is the new 50, she thinks the sunflowers im growing are beautiful. Before I fall asleep on her lazy chair i wanted to say sorry if my post are not cheerful anymore. Have a nice day

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Marshall64

That lady would have had me at "freshly baked cookies".

You don't have to apologize for the tone of your post. If you are not feeling great, it is best to let people know that. This is a supportive community and people are here for you.

in reply toMarshall64

She knew i would run over there the minute she mentioned cookies. And thankyou 🌻

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Agora1

Danielle, it is a comforting post. Enjoy your time with her xx

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Thanks Agora, im going to take a nap

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:) xx

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fauxartist

that was lovely and refreshing to hear .... and a really smart thing to do is to listen to those who know, because they have lived a life time.....your a good person to visit with this elderly person, it probably meant the world to them....and your a lucky pup to get cookies to boot.....

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Lol i did get tons of cookies. I love visiting her im not sure why but i find it extremely peaceful and i needed that

Before she even finish saying 'freshly baked' i would already be at the door. Older people have lived and no one gives better advices than them also great listener

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Lol

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Freshly baked cookies are delicious and i even end up getting some sleep at her house

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20Voices

No need to apologise you have gone through a lot lately and just need to regroup. Glad you enjoyed you tea.

Just be you that is all anyone can ask. You will get cheerful back again. Xx

in reply to20Voices

Hey hun how are you, are you doing better

This sounds delightful. I hope you enjoyed your time with her. I wish I still had my grandmother around.

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That's why i like being over there, nothing like chilling with a grandmother especially one that love baking

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There's something sweet, simple, and nostalgic about it. We don't get many moments like that these days.

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Grandparents are definitely God's gift i used to spend every weekend with mine then i realized i was gaining weight by the minute lol

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Agora1

Danielle, I think you would have liked my mother because her name was

Grandma Cookie for the obvious reason :) xx

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Lol i would have loved her!!!

They really are ❤️

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