Some are not concerned they're nosy

[Darknlovely504]

Don't you just hate when others pretend to care and to understand what you're going through?

[fauxartist]

there are gossip mongers, and hypocrites out of kicks....don't entertain them or give them a min. ....share here, and with those who love you.... this is very personal stuff, and we have been hurt enough.... be safe

[Darknlovely504 in reply to fauxartist]

U are so right they only call to see if I'm still feeling down never ask if I'm ok

[Hidden]

Yes! I do! They’re usually pretty easy to figure out, but when you’re in distress and your guard is down...watch out! It will come back to bite you in the butt. I trust no one at work right now. They fired 2 people this week for diverting narcotics and 1 quit, refusing to take a drug test. I think I’ll just keep my distance!!

[fauxartist in reply to Hidden]

yikes!....that's a good move for sure....stay out of the line of fire, keep your nose clean, and just do your stuff.....

[Hidden in reply to fauxartist]

Absolutely! Thank goodness I have no fascination with drugs! Besides, I want my pt’s to actually receive their pain med! That’s just not my thing...🌺😊🌺

[fauxartist in reply to Hidden]

I had a lot of friends a good while ago that were in medical...charge nurse, emt's, respiratory, etc....and they were saying that one of the highest rates of drug addiction and alcoholism is in the medical field. I believe it from the stand point of the pressure of the job and easy access. It takes a special person to work in medical because you have to compartmentalize or you just can't take it...you can't take on every patients pain and suffering in an empathetic way or you will not be able to do your job...you have to be able to focus on the patients needs, and then recovery should have a bit more of the empathy.

[Hidden in reply to fauxartist]

Beautifully said faux, beautifully said 🌷🙂🌷I agree with you 100%. Your insight is refreshing as it just touched my heart ❤️ Thank you!

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Hidden]

I have pulled away from a lot of people especially family

[Bigt966]

I tend to find that with work colleagues and people close to me they just want dirty gossip to talk about to next person. Hence why i have no one to talk to no one to trust. Thats why we all ways feel alone and helpless.

Trevor.

[Hidden in reply to Bigt966]

Exactly! The drama queen that really likes sharing the hottest scoop with just about everyone! She’s your go-to gal!! Please! I’d rather be alone in this set of circumstances! I’m there for me and the residents. That’s it!

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Bigt966]

I totally agree that's why so many of us are loners and hide what we're going through in life

[lawdog]

Well, I regret whatever happened, but just keep your concerns "close to your vest." That is very difficult at times when one just needs to talk and release one's internal pressure.

[Hidden]

Oh yes. Avoid them like the Plague!!

[Darknlovely504]

I have pulled back from a lot of things and people but it's always something still somebody always have something to say just tired of others