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So... I don’t know what to do. I have a good friend that has depression kind of. And although she can be a little... I made up my mind to always be there for her. My mother was talking to me and said how she left our skl, and lied to me saying she had mono and that’s why she isn’t in skl. My mother said that she feels bad for my friend but I’m her main concern because it isn’t a healthy relationship. I don’t know what to do know. Do I try to slow down the friendship like my mother suggested is best for me. Or do I disobey my mother and stay friends with her even tho it may end up hurting me. Idk. Because I said I’ll be there for her😭😭😭 helppppp

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I would listen to your mom. They know you best and have the life experience to make that kind of call.

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Right thx

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I agree with your mom. I have very horrible depression and it affects my friendships. I know it hurts my friends and I always feel guilty that I can’t be the best for them. You need to always take care of yourself first even if that means pulling away a little. Moms know best. She must see what you can’t and is trying to protect you. I wish you the best.

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Ok thx so much

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What's skl and Mono? I will answer you when I know what these terms mean. x

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MimGee in reply tohypercat54

School and mono is a sickness thing. U can look it up because I don’t know what the entire thing is called.

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