Hello

[SARatz]

Hi! I decided to join an online group because I recently moved to a new state where I know no one. Getting connected is difficult as I work a lot and often feel isolated and like I need to be somewhere that I'm known. I used to struggle with depression a lot and not so much now but do get lonely.

[sweetiepye]

Hello SARatz, Welcome , you picked a good forum to join. People on this site are very supportive and informative. I think loneliness is one of the most common problems and as people isolate themselves more I don't see it getting any better. I'm sure you have seen families having dinner out and they are all texting . Crazy isn't it. You will find friends on here almost 24/7. In the mean time maybe you could join a group or club that has an interest for you. Neighbors are nice sometimes. What state are you in ? I'm in Michigan, not the friendliest state. I have lived in Calif., W.Va. , Ohio, I think that's it. I love the southern states. People are friendlier, but they don't pay teachers very well. Pam

[SARatz in reply to sweetiepye]

I moved from FL to TN. It's a lot different here - even trying to get to know my neighbors. I'm doing some exploring and going out a lot to new places. I don't mind going out alone but it's hard when I was so plugged in and connected living in FL 21 years to being brand new. My schedule really doesn't allow for me to be in a club or anything right now but I do enjoy going out when I can. I'm going to go to some springs this weekend I think. I love the water and mountains. Thanks for welcoming me.

[Rjsurk1]

I understand how you feel . I still get depressed and lonely after moving to a new state . I have found that here on this site there are many people who care and it helps although I do wish I could make friends where i live .