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I hate me

I don’t know why I hate myself so much it just seems like I don’t belong here like everyone hates me and I can’t handle the pain any longer .

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If you want to talk about it, I'm here to listen.

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Thanks sorry I’m barely on it’s either I’m not on my phone or crying

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Maybe you were just letting off steam, but I'll be here for a while if you want to talk.

And nobody on this website hates you - that's for sure.

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I have been positive since I was small but when my cousin past away I got depression really bad I need help and to people to tell me that they loved me and had to feel loved I know that depression is horrible but I been praying for health and be positive but many people want to bring me down I just stay away from the toxic people.

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I too hated myself a while ago. It was a little different for me because I was liked and loved by those around me. I just hated myself and my life, and I could not understand why. I have since worked on myself and I now like myself.

I hope that you can find some peace in your life and find a way to give yourself a break.

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I feel the exact same way. Hard when you’re stuck with yourself

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Have you tried calm breathing, visualization and affirmations? Perhaps try saying to yourself (out loud) I am loved. I am unique. I am a valuable person. Then give yourself a hug and a hand massage, or go for a massage or work out somewhere. Even just walking helps. And when those negative thoughts come, hit the delete button in your brain. Hugs to you!

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Well guess what... I love you! I'm sending you warm hugs! XXX

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Thanks I have depression because my father died and he was everything to me and I honestly don’t know what to do without him :(

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Oh well my mom passed 29 years ago, 6 weeks later I gave birth to my 3rd child, I've had depression& anxiety since,she was my best friend, I miss her terribly!!!!!!! So I understand totally! Love & hugs! XXX

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I’m sorry for your loss 😭 it’s just with everything I’m 12 and my boyfriend hates me to death for nothing and he said he’s looking for a new girl and he means the world to me my dad died 2 weeks ago an I hate it because I was able to tell him anything that happened in my life like cutting , depression , trying to kill myself he would listen to me :( But now I have nobody to talk to I have my sister but she doesn’t help so well :(

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Whenever you want to chat just let me know! Love & Hugs!!! XXX

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I forgot to tell you how much I care about you, breaks my heart to hear your pain. I'm here for you!!! XXX

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