Will it get better

[Christie1989]

My ex and I fought a lot. It was always one sided and never his fault or would even say sorry. He broke up with me after my birthday and was like work on you and I feel like crap! I miss him and I reach out to him and it’s alwaya not sure and I didn’t want to hurt you.

[JLH96]

Breaking up with my boyfriend was a huge trigger for my anxiety. In the beginning it totally sucked but it does get better. As cheesy as “Work on you” sounds I do think I have become more independent and being able to focus on myself has been good for me. I still miss him and ever wonder if we will ever be together again but regardless of my next relationship is with him or someone else I know it will be a better relationship if I love myself and have more control over my anxiety

[Christie1989 in reply to JLH96]

Thanks so much it sucks and I’ve dated and broken up. But got over it. But it hurts !

[Mena2603]

I know you're hurting and all but think of it this way you don't have to fight anymore like you said it was a lot and you don't have to be wrong all the time anymore because you aren't contending with your issues and him at the same time. I wish you the best, really I do. You need to love you right know and focus on being the healthiest version of you then you will I am certain meet the right guy for you. The kind who are gentle with women like us who are a little more delicate. Get healthy and happy! Good luck hun!