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i’ve been talking to this guy for about 5 months now he makes me some what happy, he says he’s happy too soo the 15 he asked me out. i said yes of course but already i feel like i did something wrong yesterday he said he’s going to his brothers and that he doesn’t have service up there. i understood. i asked if everything was okay between and he said “yes baby girl 💓” he hasn’t talked to me all day. did i already do something wrong...?

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Queri

He’s probably busy don’t jump to conclusions too fast

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_apples_for_ryuk in reply to Queri

it’s just my last relationship was horrible and i’m afraid that i’m just going to end up hurt again.

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Queri

I’m already hurt

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Queri

I understand how you feeo

He told you he will not have service where he is going. Is he still at his brothers?. One day without talking is not so bad. And he warned you about not having service where he is going. Try not to jump on his case when you do talk to him. Just ask him how did it go, and tell him you missed talking to him. Don't show that you feel like you did something wrong, because in reality you didn't do anything wrong, but you don't want to scare him away with insecurities.

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i don’t know how long he’ll be then and he said he’ll call me. and i’m trying not to i really i’m. my last relationship really messed me up

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I know what's it's like to be in a bad relationship, I been there. I know the trauma it can inflict. but don't drag that into this new one. It's not fair to your new bf and very un healthy for this new relationship. Send him a text tomorrow just tell him you miss him and can't wait to hear his voice. But please don't get upset if he doesn't respond remember he has no service and will not see the message, but when he gets it he will feel good about it, it's a small gesture to show him he was on your mind and it might make u feel a little better to send that message out.

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i will thank you. i’m trying not to message him a lot. i sent a good morning text around 12 am and haven’t sent anything else.

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