Let down

[Ashleyishopeful]

I'm always being let down. My fiancé will make plans for us to do something fun then forgets, or comes up with excuses. I always get my hopes up. Like is it just to shut me up?

[hypercat54]

Oh dear. To be honest I would make plans to do fun things with friends as well so if he lets you down you can still enjoy yourself.

Don't change any plans with friends either for his sake. x

[Jeannii in reply to hypercat54]

I would go with SWAN 01 .Bonne idea !! Marriage or engagement is often a good idea for those of us who are

1. SEFISH

2. Carte blanche to take u for granted

3. His time is more important than yours

So it's up to u becos ultimately . If u have responsibilities ie. children , it's too late & u'll find yourself holding the baby alone . If he feels he can treat u as he is now, what'll happen when u sign on the dotted line.........

[Gus62]

It might just be he doesn’t know how to have fun

[Ashleyishopeful in reply to Gus62]

I love the stars, so we were suppose to go stargazing. :-\

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Being stood up sucks. But if he can't keep his plans with you and finds that he has more important things to do than to spend quality time with you aND make you happy then it's time to stop making plans with him and start making plans with friends instead. He will wonder why and that will give you the opportunity of telling him why you stopped planing activities for the both of you to enjoy together

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My fiancee does that to , so what i do when he cancels i go and say ok i will go with the plan but without you i guess and sometimes i go alone and enjoy but mostly he feels bad and he joins , take control now before marriage show him that you can do stuff without him then he wont always cancel trust me