My anxiety and depression are really bad the now. I have admitted to my other half that I'm struggling with the house and the kids and his answer is that I need to just get on with. I have asked him for help with the housework and he has basically said it's all for me to do as i am in all day. I already struggle to relax as i need everything to be just so. I am not asking do him to do everything just to help me and take a bit of pride in the house. He has spoken about going to get his own house and told me that it will be printed. Surely have should be taking the same attitude with our house. He says he still classes this place as mine. The vicious circle is he doesn't help - I lose all motivation to do anything - he sees me do the bare minimum - then he refuses to help cos it's too much. I then crash and burn when it eventually gets too much and I blitz the place. We have argued about money, housework, the kids and my grieving process. Is it time to call it a day? X
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