How do I get out of my parents house and away from their crappy attituOK!
My father thinks just because the land was his when my mother marries him; everything is his. His house his land yet he stops to think his house was seriously a shack before my mother married him. She worked all the time, even while sick yet he didn't. He didn't want to work. Her paycheck paid to fix the house so it was liveable, her paycheck bought us food and clothes.
Now they are in their 60s and 70s and the house is 40 years old. It was build by my father and grandfather who wasn't a contractor, everything was just pieced together. I wanted to go with my mother and get a loan for a brand new double wide for us 3, Yet my father says no in due time. And the reason he said no was I told him the house will be in my mother and my name(he lost his credit due to not paying bills which come back on my mother) because of that everything will be split 3 ways. He will pay his 3rd of the double wide payment. He got angry and stormed out, he refused to pay part of the payment. Now if we pay, split between my mother and me he will live in there. Not paying anything! he thinks that is ok!
I just dont understand that! Why and how someone can be that greedy and selfish! He gets a disability check, yet won't pay for anything. He won't buy clothes for himself, or soap, or any cleaning products for the house. Heck he's so selfish he doesn't think he should have to pay laundry detergent or dish detergent just because he doesn't do laundry or dishes. My mother has to or myself.
How can someone be so self centered, so selfish.
So my question is: how do I get my mother out and away from him?
And how do I get out away from them both and get my own place?
Ex is coming back for a few days...I need to escape!
I'm very depressed I don't know how to get out of this 
Trapped in the cycle of abuse.
Partner has depression - not sure how to help or what to do!
