why me

[just_keep_swimming]

questioning the why me , why is this happening to me , like is there relief from these pains?

[dwhp]

Hi JKS, my friend once said why not me? i agree eventhough it hurts so much sometimes. i think i would be a different person has i not been through my experiences. even bad experiences have positives in them. make a list of the things you're proud of and try to see if your experiences have shaped them. i really think that i'd be less of a person had i not gone through what i did. whatever it is your struggling with, try to deal with them, one at a time at your own pace. Be well!

[Kruza]

Hey warrior, thriver friend. Why not me? Yours is the question I asked myself the first few weeks after diagnosis in 2003. Then I answered myself, why not me, what is so special about me that I need to be exempt from this? Do other people deserve to go through this and not me? Mind you it is a very valid question and perhaps we ask it of ourselves and then answer it ourselves. Our experiences in life teach us a lot, they shape our vision of the future and how we should live it. This is a hard journey and we go through a lot of moments of despondency, but let us not live there, let us move through it towards the light. Sending you hugs my warrior friend.

[just_keep_swimming in reply to Kruza]

I understand your point just sometimes the pain is hard to endure 😓.

[Kruza in reply to just_keep_swimming]

Yes ma'am, that pain is hard to endure and for me, Letrozole is kicking my butt and then I have to be at work too. We are together in this journey my sister, keep reaching out when you feel bad, that is why we are here is to support each other.

[just_keep_swimming in reply to Kruza]

thank you ☺️