Nervous!

[victoralphacharlie]

Hi all!

Just starting today! I've got a long way to go with about 5 stone to lose in total to be a healthly weight but first things first, My wedding is in 3 months so that's incentive to get kick started. all advice and support would be lovely

[cheritorrox]

stick with this community and you'll get loads of support and encouragement ... someone will be replying soon to fill you in on how it works etc Good luck!

[moreless Administrator 7 stone]

He and welcome, victoralphacharlie

Many congratulations for your forthcoming nuptials, there are few better incentives to lose weight

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Wishing you all the best

[Minniewinny 5 stone Maintainer]

Welcome to the forum victoralphacharlie

Have a good slow read of the newbie post - I call it the sat-nav to the forum benefits..

Have a wonder around the daily diary in events as many of us are on different types of weight loss plans.. We all respect your freedom to choose your route..

Enjoy the forum and join in as much as your able to get the best from it..

Cheering you on 🎉🎉🎉

[Pineapple27]

victoralphacharlie and welcome! You will find this a great supportive environment to lose that weight.

When I started my weight loss over 6 years ago, I had 4.5 stone to lose.

I have a disability that I was born with (shortening of all four limbs as a result of the drug Thalidomide my mum took when pregnant with me). As a result my mobility is minimal - and was further reduced following a serious head on car crash in 2002 when I broke my ankle. I went on to have my ankle joint fused and am still in constant pain with it.

I started my weight loss journey at 14 stone - 5 and a half years ago. I am just 4ft 8” tall and so was classed clinically obese.

I was 49 years old and had been trying to lose weight all of my life since the age of 9. My disability makes exercise difficult (I am very sedentary and use a wheelchair outside of the house).

The one thing that I realised very early on in my journey was that I was just eating FAR TOO MUCH! I was a short, middle aged, sedentary female and I was eating the same as 5ft 9" active man (my now husband!). No wonder I was piling on the weight!

I started my journey at the end of February 2012, and managed to lose 4.5 stone in 2 and a half years through calorie counting and logging/weighing all of my food. That works out at 130 weeks, so on average my weight loss was less than half a pound a week - of course some weeks I lost more, others I gained... but I am trying to impress upon you the importance of just keeping on going, even though the weight may not come off as quickly as you would like it to.

I cannot stress enough how important this part of the weight loss journey is - being able to recognise just how much we are eating and address that. It is not about cutting out any foods but about being able to make informed choices about the foods we eat Also about learning how to behave differently around food. Just because food is in front of us does not mean to say that we have to eat it! Being able to exercise control and moderate intake is paramount.

I re-gained some of the weight I lost, then lost it again and have now managed to more or less maintain for the past 6 months at around 10 stone. Still considered "over weight".

Ideally I would love to drop another stone to 9 stone and maintain there.

The other great news is that it is entirely possible to lose weight without moving! Of course though, there are lots of advantages to moving a bit more - but it doesn't have to be as formal as going to a gym or out for a five mile run. A good session of house work, mowing the lawn (when the weather permits!) or even a cooking session will all burn calories and have the advantage of making you feel much better emotionally too! It's good to find something that you LIKE doing, that is enjoyable and that you are likely to sustain on a regular basis.

My weight loss journey has been long, but I am still learning new tips and tricks to help me along the way and what's more, still enjoying the challenge! I would say that my behaviour around food has changed massively - I have learned to respect food, to "break" it's control over me, and to be able to modify how I behave with food. Just because food is within sight doesn't mean I have to eat it! I don't see eating the way I do as meaning that I am missing out any more - in fact I am now able to enjoy my life and have regained the ability to do things that I struggled to do or even found impossible to do!


Here are a few of my past posts which I hope you will find helpful and inspiring. I won't try and tell you that my journey was easy - and you'll see that there were many blips along the way, but 6 years down the line, I feel about 20 years younger than I did when I was lugging around 4 stone more.

Please do pop back to the forums and share your journey with us - we are here for you, day and night and happy to share your success or support you when you need it.

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[izzy1981]

You have come to a very supportive and encouraging siye, keep posting and good luck with your journey.

[Barcud 48kg]

Hi you've come to a great community here, with lot's of support, advice and menu ideas. I am 10 weeks into my journey and as you can see from my avatar it's a 12kg bag of dog food I'm no longer carrying around all the time (2 more to go). Join in with a weekly weigh in, pick the day that fits best for you and the daily diary is great for helping you plan your eting for the day.

We are looking forward to encouraging you on your weight loss journey and celebrating your wedding with you from here in the healthy nut gallery (formerley known as the peanut gallery).

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Hello victoralphacharlie youve come to the right place. We’re a friendly bunch and you will get loads of support. Your wedding in 3 months is a great incentive to get you going. Good luck for you first week 😊