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A friend sent me this when I was having 'in law' problems. I was being constantly criticised and put down, this effected my relationship with food.

I thought sharing it may help anyone out there who isn't getting the recognition and support they deserve. I hope ok to share?

Hope you are all having a lovely Thursday ๐Ÿ˜˜

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IndigoBlue61

Very true ๐Ÿ˜Š you canโ€™t make people like you, all you can do is like yourself ๐Ÿ˜Š

You are worthwhile and deserve good nutrition and a healthy life ๐Ÿ˜Š

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amandalovescakeโ€ข in reply toIndigoBlue61

Thanks Anna, I have realised success is to care, love and respect myself. Fill my body with the nutrients it deserves and break the pattern of turning to the wrong foods in a crisis. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿปโœ”๏ธ

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IndigoBlue61โ€ข in reply toamandalovescake

Thatโ€™s a lesson well learnt ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ…

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George56โ€ข in reply toIndigoBlue61

I agree with you and second this.

George ๐ŸŒน

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Justswimming

Wow that's a great share. I've been obsessing over this guy not liking me and I just have to let it go..I'm just an ego boost to him because I have a crush on him...

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George56โ€ข in reply toJustswimming

Hi justswimming ๐Ÿ˜€ let the guys come to you and make them earn your effectiveness.

Kind regards George 56

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Bong1968โ€ข in reply toJustswimming

His loss! I'm sure in the future you'll look back and wonder what you saw in him anyway... ๐Ÿ˜Š

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amandalovescake

Aww Justswimming... that's a tough one. Wishing you all the best x

Ah wise words! Oprah said once that the best decisions usually come easily. ;-)

Sometimes we swim against the tide trying to make relationships into something they are not. I learned a long while ago that you don't have to push someout out of your life completely if you don't get your expectations met. You can let that person 'go' in another way, you can let them off the hook of your expectation and change their role. A friend who lets you down and isnt there for you for eg doesn't deserve to be trusted with your innermost feelings, but they can be the friend who makes you laugh over dinner!

Learning as I go.

I think your article clip is brill.

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George56โ€ข in reply to

Hi Happybeee, ๐Ÿ˜.

You have changed your name from happyBibi?

Please forgive me if I'm wrong.

I'm just going slow and steady enjoying the peace.

I'm back on track and starting a fresh.

Hopefully you are doing well today.

Enjoy your weekend.

Kind regards George 56

โ€ข in reply toGeorge56

That's me George! Hope all is well with you!

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amandalovescakeโ€ข in reply to

Thanks Happybee. I've been a people pleaser for years, now plan on having more 'me time'. I'm not cutting people out, just making myself less available to their demands. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป

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Exactly!

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George56

Hi Amandalovescake๐Ÿ˜‹.

A lovely post and so true.

Hopefully you will enjoy all your meals in peace quiet and peaceful setting.

Be kind to yourself ๐Ÿˆ

Kind regards George 56 โ˜บ

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amandalovescakeโ€ข in reply toGeorge56

Thankyou George. I'm off work for next two weeks and plan on spending the time doing what I want when I want. ๐Ÿ˜

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Bong1968

Thanks for sharing! It's so true...

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