So this is my first post and im unsure what to write, wanting advice maybe. Im 26 and ive always had heavy periods but nothing too concerning. Ive always been on some form of contraceptive but i had my copper coil removed almost 4 years ago. My boyfriend and i have never used protection during sex and i have never got pregnant. Although we havent actively tried should i be concerned? All of my friends are pregnant or had babies and “got caught” by missing one pill etc but it doesnt seem to be happening for us. I have bought ovulation tests and although i havent taken them religiously for a month or so every odd one ive taken has always been negative, could i have PCOS and not be able to get pregnant at all? I am overweight which is why ive put off going to the doctors as i know they will just send me away until im the ideal weight range. I am trying, ive lost 2 1/2st so far with another 4 1/2st to go, can anyone give me any guidance or advice? Im hiding the fact that it isnt bothering me and im acting like “oh we havent got pregnant because we havent actively tried” but i think 4 years on no contraception is a long time :/. Any advice welcome, i feel at abit of a crossroads at the moment and not sure what to do. My boyfriend is very supportive and says no matter what the outcome we will get through it, im just really struggling. I just know there must be something wrong with me and i worry if its PCOS or if im just infertile full stop.