Hi everyone, not sure if I am posting in the correct place but I wanted to let you all know that my wonderful Mum Ruth (BangorBelle) passed away on 28th November 2021. I know HealthUnlocked was a massive source of support during the past 3 years while she battled stage 4 cancer. Thankfully her passing was peaceful and she died at home as she wanted. We all miss her desperately but we have such wonderful memories of such an amazing person to get us through each day. If I have posted to the wrong part of this portal please do let me know.
Best wishes to all, Christa (her daughter)
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So sad but so glad she was here for us and this group for her. Prayers for your family. I know losing you mom is very difficult - please let this group know if we can help and know that your family is part of ours. God Bless!
Hi ChristaThank you for letting us know about Ruth’s passing.
We will miss her and her photos dearly.
She was so pleased she made it to the wedding recently, that meant so much to her.
She was another lady that stayed strong and positive to the end.
Thanks so much for letting us all know, Christa! Your mother seemed such an excellent fighter, always upbeat, hoping for the best. You will miss her forever, I'm sure, but there is a comfort in knowing that her illness is over. I'm glad to know that her end was peaceful, and that you were there for her.
So sorry to hear about Ruth’s passing and I wish to pass on condolences to you and the family in Bangor .
We connected when we realised we both had family in the region and I loved seeing pics of the lough and her local beach, as it brought back many happy memories of Pickie Park with my daughter’s grandparents . Ruth was such a strong person and stayed positive despite what she endured . I can still remember her laughing about her wig blowing off into a puddle at her daughter’s graduation pics in England ...so she posed without it ! And the time her husband (a born Yorkshireman too ! ) featured her on the front of a mock magazine shoot . She just loved him so much, and her daughters too...she finally made her daughter’s wedding after it was postponed a couple of times during the pandemic and she was so proud ...we were treated to pics of the stunning dress and the amazing ‘book cake ‘. She was so tired but made sure she stayed up to enjoy the special occasion.
I will miss Ruth , and I hope she is at peace now ...with her ‘ healthunlocked ‘ friends Barb, Nancy and Josie (to name a few that she became friends with on here ).
What beautiful sentiments you've shared, thank you. I appreciate you mentioning our other dear departed sisters who graced all of our lives. May they all Rest In Peace.
Such sad news Christa, deepest condolences to yourself and all the family x
Dear Christa - I felt immediate sadness when I read this. Your mother radiated energy and love for so many things.
Dealing with MBC is a gut punch. She supported all of us when we had questions and concerns.
Like others have posted, I remember that she was thrilled to attend the family wedding after postponements due to covid, etc. I hope you find comfort in knowing how much she cared for all of you, and how grateful she was to celebrate with you.
For what it's worth, I want to share some of my lessons after my mother died. Our daughter was only 6 months old over 20 years ago. Mom’s bladder cancer was relentless. I mourned her deeply. Who could fill her shoes? To help me as I grieved, I remembered my mother's strong, enduring love. I could "hear" what Mom would say to me to ease my heartbreak.
Mom would've told me to mourn, but she would also say that she wanted us to always remember how much joy we gave her. As a new mother, I began to understand her power to encourage me to go on with life. I learned to let friends become part of my parenting with their support and good nature
I try to honor Mom all these years later by living an appreciative life. Over time, this approach helped me ease the pain. I hope that you will eventually find your own gentle ways to soothe your pain after losing your own devoted mother.
Our daughter, who does not remember Mom of course, remembers hearing various stories. She mentions Mom when certain things happen. Our daughter still invokes Mom's exhortations to "embrace the good times because they will help you get through the bad times." Love Lives On as we say in our house
Sincerest condolences from myself and my family. I've not been here long enough to have gotten to know your mother but I feel your pain and hope you have a lifetime of memories to get you through. Leo and family. XXX ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. She had such great support from you and her family. You gave her the gift of peaceful passing. May your many loving and happy memories of her stay with you and bring you peace.
Dear Christa, Others here have expressed themselves far more eloquently than I could. You mother was a treasured member here and I will miss her and her spark.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss and her passing.
I am so sorry for your loss of your dear Mother. We will miss her too on this board. May your memories give you comfort. Thank you for letting us know. Yes , you have posted to the right site.
So sorry my deepest condolences to you and your entire family!! Let your wonderful memories get you through the grief ! Your mom was such a strong positive funny person. We will miss her but I'm glad her passing was peaceful! Thanks Christa for letting us all know!!! Take Care
Dear Christa and Family,I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful Mum. This is very sad news. May your memories of her fill your heart with peace and love. Condolences to you and your family.
Christa, whenever your mother posted on this site, she managed to produce an emotion in me, usually laughter and happiness. And now your news brings me a mix of sadness and peace. Sad that she will no longer give to you and us as she selflessly did, but peaceful that she was able to go out as she desired. Rest In Peace, Ruth! You made a portion of this gal’s world a little better. Laura
Thanks for letting us know. I am glad that she went peacefully at home and that she found this forum to be very supportive. Condolences to your family.
Really saddened to have just come on and see this, my condolences to you and family. Ruth looks radiant in this photo, I'm sure that lovely smile would light up any room.Best wishes xx
Christa, My deepest condolences. Your mother was such a bright and kind voice in our group. I'm so glad to know she was home and surrounded by family. I know that was great comfort to her. Thank you for letting us know. I'm so sorry for your loss. Andi
My sincere condolences. Your mom was a beautiful, great warrior who lifted our spirits with her unique sense of humor😇 . She is sorely missed. I thank GOD she made her daughters wedding, and she soooooo enjoyed it😊. I hope pray her loving family will be at peace Amen.🙏
I am so very sorry for your loss. The photos she shared always put a smile on my face -Her smile was infectious.... Ruth will be sorely missed. May the memories of your mum bring you and your family some comfort at this sad time. 🙏
Dear Christa, I’m very late to see this post but I wanted to send my condolences for the loss of your mum. I know she loved you and your sister very much.
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was a beautiful, great warrior who lifted our spirits with her unique sense of humor😇 . She is sorely missed. I thank GOD she made her daughters wedding, and she soooooo enjoyed it😊. I hope pray her loving family will be at peace Amen.🙏
Just want to run away sometimes
Mom has stage 4 mbc. looking for hope. 
Update: It has been a while!
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