Long story short, I split up with my ex girlfriend while she was pregnant with our baby. The relationship fell apart.
Since then we have spoken about getting back together but if anything, her behaviour has worsened. In the last two days she has unleashed what I can only describe as vitriol in my direction, blaming me for the break up, hating my family and sting some really horrible things about me.
I was tempted to go back as we have a little boy together. He is the love of my life. He is such a treasure that I feel sick every minute I am away from him. But I don't want him growing up in a house where there is no love or respect.
In the past I had issues when we rowed. I would get really angry at things she said. Now after a lot of counselling I no longer get angry. I accept that she can be nasty. There is no getting through to her. But after two weeks of discussions where she has rubbished practically everything I said and told me there is someone new, a lot of the work I did has been neutralised again. She dies exert power over me all right.
Has anyone been through similar?
While she is a tyrant, I genuinely love her but have run out of things to say to her. I talk she replies destroying my argument. There is no point. She speaks about my past relationships like they were all my fault. All hers were the fault of the other person.
The horrible part is I will only see my little boy twice a week. Maybe I should just focus on that and look to meet someone new as she seems to be a very toxic person who is going to self destruct with her rage.