WEEKEND CHAT 11th/12th JANUARY 2025๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ›‘ - Quit Support

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WEEKEND CHAT 11th/12th JANUARY 2025๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ›‘

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BriarwoodAdministratorDucky
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Hello and welcome to our Weekend Chat ๐Ÿ’ฌ

After the coldest week weโ€™ve had for a long time, I hope youโ€™re all doing well with your quits. If youโ€™ve had a slip, or are having a hard time with those cravings, then Iโ€™d like to talk about the traffic light system to help.

Most of us get cravings and this is a normal part of quitting. When youโ€™re tempted to light up, Iโ€™d like you to STOP ๐Ÿ›‘ and THINK before you act on them.

STOP and identify HOW you are feeling? and WHY ? Then calm down using a coping method like slow deep breathing ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

THINK what is the size of the problem and does my reaction match? Is this IN or OUT of my control and how can I solve this ?

Will I feel any better if I smoke? and we all know the answer to that is NO. Will smoking solve this problem? and unfortunately we all know the answer to that is NO as well.

This is the time to turn your attention away from the cravings as by stopping and thinking, it delays immediate reaction. That gut instinct to grab a cigarette has been delayed and you are in a better position to see that it would be a mistake. So what Iโ€™m saying is donโ€™t act on impulse as the craving will pass. Youโ€™ve bought yourself time and thatโ€™s so important.

I found running up and down stairs a few times in angry mode helped buy that time and thatโ€™s what I needed.

Iโ€™m not asking you to run up and down stairs but I am asking you to STOP ๐Ÿ›‘ and THINK ๐Ÿค” as this traffic light system can help before you act. ๐Ÿ”ด๐ŸŸก๐ŸŸข

Our quits are hard earned and we have to fight to keep them. Itโ€™s truly worth fighting for your freedom so keep up the good work and if you do slip up, get straight back in the ring and go again๐Ÿ’ช

Weโ€™re here to help support you, so believe in yourself and be kind to yourself. Smoke free is the best way to be๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ™Œ

Have a lovely Weekend and NOPE๐Ÿšญ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿซ–โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿซ–โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿค—xx

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jillygirlAdministratorQueen Bee

Good morning Briarwood, and everyone clicking in today. Brilliant post and well thought out. Love the traffic light idea.

Have a lovely day. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿฆ†โ›ท๏ธxx

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BriarwoodAdministratorDuckyโ€ข in reply tojillygirl

Good morning Jilly ๐Ÿ‘‘ ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ

Stay warm and get plenty of rest this weekend lovely lady ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โš•๏ธ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿค—xx

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Yvonneh1234Administratorโ€ข in reply toBriarwood

I second that ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜Šxxxx

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Yvonneh1234Administrator

good morning everyone great post Brairwood what a great idea using traffic light system ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’ชxxxx

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BriarwoodAdministratorDuckyโ€ข in reply toYvonneh1234

Good morning Yvonneh๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ

Hope you have a lovely weekend and keep dancing๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿค—xx

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Yvonneh1234Administratorโ€ข in reply toBriarwood

Brairwood Iโ€™ve just put jillygirl music post on so here I go. . . .๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽถ

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monkyAdministratorCake sniffer outer

Good morning Briarwood, Jillygirl, Yvonneh, Kittenkat and all looking๐Ÿ‘€ in today ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹

A great post thankyou Briarwood ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜€and like the others have said, the traffic lights idea is great ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜ธ

Have a lovely weekend everyone and remember ''NOPE'' Not One Puff Ever๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜ธxx

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BriarwoodAdministratorDuckyโ€ข in reply tomonky

Good morning young man๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ

I was thinking you could use the traffic light system for cake as well๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿ™ˆ ๐Ÿ˜น

Have a great weekend and enjoy your cake๐Ÿ˜ฝ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—xx

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๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ that made me chuckle ๐Ÿคญ xxxx

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