One of my sons has started smoking at the age of 25, ok he's old enough to make his own choices, but I am so angry and upset. My husband stopped smoking at 27, both my dad and father in law stopped in their sixties and no one else in the family smokes. He only started 4 months ago and I found out because I could smell it. He never smokes in front of any of the family and never smokes once he is home. No one but me and my husband know as he keeps it secret from family. How can I convince him to stop? He socialises with friends, who he has known for years, and yes at least four of them smoke. I have given the talk about how upset his grandparents would be and how I will never allow him to smoke in front of me. But why start smoking now?
Please try to help, if you can.