Looking for new tools, books, workshops

Hello, I have been in abusive relationship for 7 years. I was lucky to get out. Took 4 years to heal and attracted the same movie again with another man... I saw the patterns right away and I thought it was just my PTSD from previous... I got the therapist - we figured it was both - previous & current... I wasn't able to leave current relationship but I see how it affected my progress, career & health... I am looking for any new book or new technique I haven't applied in order to never have this in my life. I am middle age woman and would love to build healthy family. attracting last 2 emotionally unavailable guys is not the path I would like to continue. And I don't know what to change inside of me anymore...