It is with a heavy heart that i have to say that Brian died as he lived quitly and without fuss.
Great sadness: It is with a heavy heart that... - PSP Association
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Oh Jane I am so sorry my heart hurts for you, I can feel your pain, grieve in your own time dear Jane, sending you a massive hug xxxxxx
Oh Jane, I am so sorry to hear this. You have been through so much but we enjoyed hearing about the lovely outings you were able to do recently with the new wheelchair.
Sending you every sympathy and much love.
Vicki 🌹
Dear Jane, I'm so, so sorry for your loss, I hope you can feel my arms wrapped around you for comfort, my eyes are full of tears and I'm thinking about you with love....Pat xx
Sending you HUGE love, a virtual hug to wrap around you and will be thinking of you at this time.
We're all only a "post" away xxx
Oh my, I'm so so sorry Jane, my sincerest condolences and hugest hugs! At least now Brian is free is this evil evil evil illness! RIP x
I am so sorry Jane, my thoughts are with you, sending love xx
Dear Jane, It brings such sadness to read this after all I have read about Brian's battle with PSP. As you know, I lost mum only a couple of months ago in June so I only know too well the heartache you are feeling right now. It goes without saying our loved ones battled hard, but now is the time for them to rest from this horrible illness. I find it very very hard to believe my mum has gone but they will always be with us, in our hearts, in our minds and in our conversations. That will never change! Bless you Jane and I send you my deepest sympathy. If you ever need to chat or off load, give me nod and I'll only be too happy to share our memories. Sending love and hugs to you and your family x x
Dearest Jane, what a shock. I am very sad for you and us all. Not 12 days ago you were out and about with the new chair, and so courageously upbeat about it. You have been an example of love and bravery to me, and I have leant upon your advice many times. No one could have done more for Brian than you did. We all say we send hugs, but I have rarely wanted so much to be there to hug someone in person as I want to hug you now. Love and hugs and wishing you peace now, after all your labor. Ec
Jane I'm sending you all my love and a big hug. It will take time to adjust to live without PSP. You will get there. Love Maddy x
Oh Jane, I am so, so sorry for you. Brian though, is finally free from this evil, bitter and twisted illness. He certainly didn't let this damned disease have it easy, fighting for as long has he has. Neither did you, Jane you have been one of my rocks, through this dreadful journey. The way you have cared for Brian, making his last few years as happy as they could be, has been an inspiration to us all. Now let us try and support you through the next part of your journey. We are always here to listen. Death is something I should think we have all experienced in one way or another, therefore will understand some of your grief.
Remember, it will still be one day at a time.
Sending you a very large hug across the ether, wish there was more I could for you, but know my shoulder is always, only a click away.
Lots of love
Heady
Oh Jane, I'm so sorry Brian has left you but he will always be with you in your lovely memories you have of him. I hope it is a comfort to know he left quietly. He was blessed to have had the love and support he had from you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and will be over the next few difficult weeks/months as you begin to build a new life after PSP.
Sending you a big hug.
X
Dear jane, I'm so sorry. You were such a good wife and friend. I remember when y ou gave hime meat and chips and he ate them all and how you tried difft meds to help him be strong or more comfortable. I am sure everyone will miss him. Now is the time for grieving and wondering, "what now?' but you'll know . Jane you have a good eye on life and you will be good at whatever life brings you or what you bring to life....sending huge hugs your way....
Dear Brian, you were, I am sure a wonderful husband,proven by how hared your wife worked to care for you. You were a good friend a good family man....may you find rest now free of PSP...
AVB
When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid yea, thou shalt lie down and thy sleep shall be sweet... Proverbs 3:24
...And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds though Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are (hurting) in spirit.
Psalm 34:18
Oh Jane
I am so sorry. We have lit a candle to burn through the night for you both.
With a lot of sadness here. Liz and I feel the loss too.
Very warmly
Liz ad Kevin
xxx
So sorry Jane sending lots of love at this sad time xx
Dear Jane, so sorry to read your sad news, I'm lost for words. Sending you a big hug.
Lots of love
Debbie xxxx
So sad to read your news. You have been an inspiration with your strength as you have dealt with Brian's PSP. I hope that the many memories of happy times will allow the ones of more recent years to fade. Peace to you and your family.
So sorry to hear about your loss. I hope that you can take solace that Brian does not have to deal with this awful illness anymore, he can finally rest in peace. It's always sad but hopefully you and your family can begin to pick up the pieces again, remember the good times not PSP.
Please accept my condolences on your sad loss. God bless you and give you strength at this time.
My heart ♥ is full of love to you. Everyone has written such lovely words to you. I'm stumped on what to say in honesty.
May you both find peace and be free of this disease.
Lots. Of love xxx
So sorry to hear that jzgirl - best wishes for you and your family
My thoughts and prayers are with you..and Brian I am so gLad it was peaceful Xxxx
So sorry to hear this, Jane. I feel I know you and Brian and am shocked as I thought you were whizzing around with the wheelchair !
As others have said, your resiliance and spirit are an inspiration to us.
Big hug, from Jean xxx
So sorry to hear this sad news jzygirl, I'm sending all my love and support to help you through the next few months of grieving. I'm told that as time passes you will remember the good times and not this horrible disease. Take care of yourself.
Love and hugs
Kate xxx
Very sad for you and your family. Brian is now free from this wretched disease, and you will now begin the next chapter of your life with him forever in your heart. I wish you peace and serenity.💕🎈
So sorry to hear your news, my thoughts are with you
I am so sorry for your loss and join the many others here sending you a virtual hug. Keeping you in my prayers.
Christine47
So very sorry. My condolences.
Dear Jane,
Another posting, another set of tears. I'm so sorry, we are hurtling toward it as well but in stage ? (2+) I think. Just so sad.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. And do keep posting, we love you.
Cuttercat
Dearest Jane,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I send you my deepest condolences at this sad time.
Big hug
Much love,
Zsha
Dear Jane,
I just re read your post and all the replies and the lovely photo of your Brian, when you took him out in the wheelchair and he had ice cream.....so hard to believe only a couple of weeks ago!
Lots of love x
Jane, my heart aches for you on the loss of Brian. It's been 11 long and lonely weeks since I lost my precious bride to PSP. Will be keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Ketchupman
So so sorry for ur loss 😢😢 xx
I am so sad to hear that . Brian was just enjoying that new chair and getting out more. I enjoyed your posts so much. You are a courageous lady. Brian seemed like a very nice gentleman. Hugs front Ron and I. We are glad for Brian that his struggle is over. Please take care of yourself even as you grieve. Brian would want you to move ahead and have a good life.
Dear Jane, I am so so sorry to read your post . I am sending you lots of love and prayers . Xxx
OH JANE HOW DREADFULLY SAD FOR YOU /// I HAD NO IDEA HE WAS SO CLOSE TO IT // I AM SO VERY SAD AND SORRY FOR YOU .. WILL YOU STAY ON THE SITE I WILL MISS YOU IF YOU DECIDE TO GO HUGS AND LOVE FROM SHA SHA
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope you find solace and take all the time you need to grieve. Everyone does it in their own way. Don't let anyone "push" you along. God bless Brian and you and your family.
Dearest Jane, I'm so so sorry th hear of Brian's passing. He is free from this cruel disease once more. Take your time to grieve.
Sending love and hugs your way.
Much love Michele xxx
Dear Jane.. i am so sorry for your loss... sending my prayers to you.. take care plzz..
Lots of love
Xxxx
Jane, how are you holding up? We all miss your presence here so much! You are just one of those people who have a knack for words and a wonderful way of taking on what life throws at you with grit ( and determination) ) and I imagine with a big ole smile on your face. You are loved so much here and You were a gift from God the universe, (you name your diety) to Brian. You cry your eyes out, scream at the unfairness of it all, cuddle up with that cute bedding you got him to brighten the room up ( no paperwork this time) and sleep. You will dream of him and don't be surprised if he is present in your dreams. I think you will feel his presence all around you for awhile . I have read this over and over that loved ones even pets stay close in spirit to make sure we are going to be ok. They feel amazing and are confuse why we are so sad. The hard part is they are free and we are left with the pain of losing them. Keep telling yourself, " not gone just gone on ahead".
Tremendous hugs& love,
Jayne
So sorry to hear your sad news.xxxx
jzygirl,
I am so sorry that Brian is gone. I truly know what it feels like to have that bottomless whole in your life. It has been almost 3 months since Larry died. There is not a day that goes by that I do not miss him. I have not been able to go to a support group yet, but I will. My mom has come to live with me to help with the loneliness. I do not do well staying in my home at night by my self. I cannot sleep. May you find some peace and love in family and friends. Love, Deb
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