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Great party - But I got thrown out!

Great party - But I got thrown out!

Lovely sunny day.

Liz home and a rare smile. She really likes the ponds :)

The water is a bit scummy still, but that will go as the ecosystem corrects it.

Liz is having a great time - she is smiling.

However she reminded me that it was a girlie do... So I've retreated. She always had girls only with these friends... So I don't mind... I dip in and out and its a lovely smiley do.

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Sounds like a sight to behold... wish I was there. In any event, please let Liz know we care, and keep her in our thoughts constantly, along with yourself and many others. Save a small piece of cake; I am fading a bit.

Your certifiably insane bro,

Steve

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Kevin so happy that the party went ahead, with smiles from Liz, hope you all have a lovely day, enjoy the cake, love to you and Liz xxxxx

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Hi Kevin and Liz

What a great photo

Sounds as though Liz enjoyed it and you with having time with Liz at home

Sending hugs and kisses

Sue xx

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Beautiful picture and smile. Thanks for giving me a smile today.

Bobby

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:-)

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Wonderful . Liz looks quite stylish in her sunglassses and hat. How great that she has good friends she enjoys being with. That’s the best medicine. I’m so happy it worked out well. I hope the save you some treats .

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A host can never go to their own party. You are too busy working it. Glad Liz got home for the do, enjoyed it and smiled about it.

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Nice to see this picture and this smile!

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Wonderful picture!

xoDorie

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Kevin

Give my love to Liz! As a female I am allowed to send her love and hugs too? She looks so happy in that photo. The ponds will make her feel at peace. Good weather this week too so her hat and sunglasses will get some wear?

I am delighted for you both that she is home for now. Don't worry about being kicked out... that would have happened anyway! 😂. Hope you save some cake for later and have good memories from today.

Marie x

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Kevin

It makes me so happy for you to see Liz smile and to look so contented. Just look at the photo when you feel down

and see the good days.

Biggles x

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Thank you! You get your Press Badge for this great picture.

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What a really lovely photo and a wonderful memory for you both after a particularly tough week. How fab it was a girls only party and Liz could maintain this as previously ( with a little help of course) Hope the cake was delicious and you were allowed some too!!

For me these rare moments when my loved one smiles and seems at peace with the world keep me going.

Wishing you both a week ahead of calm and maybe even more smiles.

Love

Tippy

PS ponds look amazing

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Such a lovely photo Kevin. I am so glad Liz had a lovely day with her friends. Tell her I like her hat. The garden looks fabulous and even the sun was smiling down on you all.

Bless you for making this such a happy day for her x

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What a lovely photo. So pleased all went well today XxxX

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You and Liz have my admiration.................... how wonderful that she is able to be back home for a while.

She looks very happy and that makes us all happy.

XXX

Patrick.

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Go get a beer!! I’m pleased Liz is having/has had a good day

Hugs to you both x

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Oh, no darling!

Today we are the poshest folk on the estate!

We (Royal We) are drinking a superb white Rioja.

Pint mugs are alright for that...So I'm told ;)

From a very happy me.

Hugs to ya!

Moi

xxxx

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Lovely PIC of Liz! So pleased she is making happy memories.

Raised my glass to you both last night. Wish it had been Rioja! Can't make that here! Also had a rice pud as couldn't find a chocolate mousse. Glad you all had some fun, even if you were kicked out!

Big hugs to you both

Jen XXX XXX

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A very happy smiley Liz how wonderful a keep forever memory. You have a beautiful garden I am so jealous. Bear hugs to you both. Love Jxx

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Kevin, I was just feeling sorry for myself, then I read your post. So pleased for you that Liz was able to enjoy the day. I know that you will be happy too because of this. Long may it last! Rx

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Liz looks happy in her beautiful garden, and enjoying the sunshine, your a very lucky man ,.....xxx.Brenda

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Liz looks really happy and glad you had a good day. Love your pondsxx

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Kevin, so glad all your hard work (in every direction..!) Has been rewarded :-)

👍💐🦎☀️🌈💖

Anne G

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A heart warming photo indeed.

May the memory of the joy and happiness that today bestowed upon you all be one that you recall when the going gets tough.

Liz looks fabulous

X

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Thank you for the photo. Liz looks well/wonderful with the weight she has lost. I am so pleased. I think for all the guilt you have carried and all the complaints Liz expressed, you did well to have placed her away from home. She is getting good care......I fantasize from the photo.

Take lots of photos of celebrations and happy times. They will be a comfort.

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Lovely photo and a precious smile. Making memories.Girlie lunches are vital !

I'm so glad it worked out.

love, Jean xx

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Oh how lovely for you both and especially Liz. So glad you were both able to enjoy the day and gorgeous weather too.

A x

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Dear lovely man, what else did you expect when all the girls gathered, 'fraid not too much room for men at such events. Joking apart I am so pleased that it was such a successful day for you all, the smile from Liz is what helps to make your world go round and we all enjoy seeing her look so happy. Sorry I've not posted on your last few posts but took a very last minute decision to join my son and his family at a beautiful cottage on the Gower Peninsula. I am so glad I made the effort to take the train down there but wasn't so happy to be returning to an empty house. Love you're cascading ponds, running water is so lovely to listen to, very calming, my little pond is purely a wildlife pond so no sound of running water.

Sending you both a big hug.

Love Kate xxx

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Thank you all for the lovely responses.

I went to see Liz in the home today, as I do everyday.

She spoke! She only managed a few words before her voice gave out. And, she emanated so much warmth and love.

Soon too tired she settled back and watched me whilst we held hands and I read to her.

What a turn around... Long may it last.

Meanwhile if I wasn't already married to her I think I would propose to her on the spot.

Thanks for being for there for us.

Warmly

Kevin

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Aaaah. Love indeed. Really warming.

xxxx

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Absolutely the loveliest post, and Liz look wonderful. Thank you for sharing, Kevin. :)

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Hey Liz darlin you are looking fine! wish I was with you and the girls.... Keep smiling

DoWell

Andrea

AVB

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Hi AVB

I will tell her :)

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Thanks...

How you doing, Kevin?

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Hi Andrea

Very happy right now... Liz has come back to me in her mind, so to speak.

Crazy busy and so getting up earlier to get things done. Right now I am two months behind with the garden and am working flat out to get the last of the sowing done before its too late.

Talking of which I need to go out and get some gardening done before its too hot.

I am concentrating on creating a way of living. Liz's illness forced early retirement and then there was the steep learning curve and emotional whirlwind of being a carer and coping. Followed by the Nursing Home stuff... So I am taking this good space as a time of allowing myself to adjust and find a life style which works for the new situation I find myself in, before the next big changes kick in.

How are you these days?

It's not been too long so I guess it's still tough.

Warmly

Kevin

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Hey Kevin, well at least the window is still open so-to-speak, for your garden. I have a lovely line of Rose of Sharon Bushes. a couple of ppl I hired to trim and clean my yard whacked the stuffing or should I say blossoms right off the bushes! My fault though. I told them I wanted a bit taken of the top as the foliage was getting into the wires. Welp all I can say now is Why!!! why did I ask them to do that!!! so you can see, I am not too happy with my "gardening" but my son who worked in the field says that next years blossoms will be thicker than ever ......hmm we'll see! As far as anything else, well I haven't gotten my rhythm yet. I'm still just praying Lord send me.....I wonder if I mean it though.... sometimes its just hard to get out of the house ... oh well I do hope you have a lovely crop of whatever it is you sowed this year....Say hi to Liz

:)

Andrea

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Chuckles - I hate jobbing gardeners coming in... Hope they recover soon.

I a rubbish gardener, but I do it with enthusiasm! ;)

I do hope you find a path forwards. I takes time. Think about loosing an arm... takes a long time.

So please be kind to yourself. I'm waiting for that particular slipper t drop... It's like a guillotine prepped and ready... I dread it...

Hugs to you :)

Warmly

Kevin

xxxx

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