Thank you all for your wonderful replies today .. I honestly feel less on my own now!
You asked about my mum .. Well she is one of a kind really ... Always has bust a gut for everyone and anyone ... Gentle ... Caring .. A wonderful mum to her three children ... Mixed with a good sense of humour! She is just 75 years young ! She is having difficulty now with her balance and needs help with walking . Her eyesight has deteriorated rapidly and she feels dizzy all the time . She has no energy . She lives in maghull which is outside Liverpool and I live 100 miles away so I have her to stay every two weeks or so for a week and then take her home. My brothers who live close by then see her as much as they can but they have young families . She is on her own. We are just now looking into the fact she is needing more help and how to go about it! ... Only want what's best for mum! Xxxx