Hey Fellas, Hope everyone is doing well. So I had my annual visit with Dr. Mulhall (Urologist) yesterday, and after a routine sonogram, the team there informed me that I have a leaky valve in my penis. Dr. Mulhall explained, the penis has 2 valves that carry and hold blood during erections. He also reported that this is very common with patients whom had surgery, radiation and ADT (the trifecta treatment).
Thus I am still unable to get a good erection with the use of drugs and injections. So now I have to choose if I want to keep these often painful injections of trimix (100mg) that give me a barely penetrable erection, or to go for a penile implant. I have been faithful to Dr.Mulhall’s recommendations over the past year and a half, and have injected myself, despite 0- libido and I also kept sexually active during the whole time. However, now that the 1 year ADT is over and I can slowly feel my libido coming back, I am fretting the thought of having to inject in hopes of an erection for the rest of my life. I really want to return to my sexual self before all this, within reason and as much as possible of course. I know sex isn’t everything, but it certainly is important to this 53 year old guy.
In conclusion, I have done some research and also read Dr. Mulhall’s materials on penile implant surgery. In addition, I spoke to one of his patients, who was eager to report that it was the best medical decision he’s ever made. He said he has returned to the spontaneity side of sexual intimacy with his partner. He is 72 and his partner 35. His surgery was 4 years ago. So here I am on the fence and leaning towards doing anything that will increase the possibility of sexual normalcy for myself.
I appreciate any and all thoughts on this.
God Speed,
D