Summary: FREEDOM!
No more wearing dark pants so that leaks might not show so much. No more carrying extra pads in the car and in my pockets if I have to be out for several hours. No more excusing myself during the show because I don't think my pad will last until intermission. No more wondering whether I smell like urine all the time. No more ... so many worries!
I still wear a pad for "insurance" when I'm going to be active (I dance several nights a week), but at the end of the day, it is damp from sweat and not from leaks. And I love wearing a kilt "commando" again! My insurance doesn't cover pads, so I'm looking forward to the savings now that I might use four per WEEK instead of four per DAY.
My current urologist told me that this surgery has been around for almost 20 years. I don't know why previous doctors never mentioned it before. I almost want to sue them for malpractice!
If the artificial urinary sphincter surgery is an option for you, please give it serious consideration!