Hi everyone~
I just wrote recently but this Decipher test seems to have up-ended our lives.
My husband, 75, overweight w/Watchman, was dx'ed late Nov. w/what was originally classified as Favorable Risk Intermediate after random biopsy; we went to a urologic oncologist out of Froedtert in Milwaukee (saw elsewhere, we live near Green Bay) and their take was Gleason 4+3 instead of 3+4 & noted perineural invasion. Dr. Sivaraman ordered Pylarify PET scan, which came back clean, and the Decipher. Weirdly, his most recent PSA had dropped, from 8.97 in late August to 5.13 (the urologist said it was the inflammation going down.)
My husband has been on a Foley due to retention that worsened after an infection and the BPH tests showed his bladder was still functional, so our working plan recently has been to look into getting a HoLEP for the retention and then do some form of RT, brachy, etc. for the cancer. We were very hopeful he could avoid many of the worst side effects of all this.
Well, this afternoon the uro onc, Dr. Sivaraman, called and told us the Decipher results show high risk of aggressive cancer. I haven't seen the actual report yet so all I know is he said the number was 90something although I see the scale is NOT 1-100 so I suppose he meant .9??? Frankly, NO ONE we have seen thus far has inspired us w/confidence...
We are stunned and feel our world has turned upside down. I registered him w/University of Chicago Cancer and a patient coordinator will call-tomorrow if possible. I want to see Dr. Scott Eggener who is a urologic oncologist and Director of the High Risk and Advanced Prostate Cancer Clinic there. I have watched videos and lectures with him and get a good feeling about his approach, skills, credentials etc. We have yet to see someone we feel we can trust and really need that, even if we eventually go somewhere else although presumably this now means SURGERY is our only option for BOTH the cancer and his median-lobe obstruction.
What we don't know is WHAT ELSE he is likely to go through now...will they want to do adjuvant RT and/or the dreaded ADT???!!! You know, it's bad enough at 75 to be told your life expectancy is <10 years but the prospect of suffering for a long, long time while you treat something you have no symptoms from is hard to face. He may not be trim or physically "fit" but my husband is still working (he just stopped full-time teaching last year but is subbing this year and in great demand for his Spec Ed experience) and we sail in the summer all over. His worst fear is not being able to do either soon and frankly, we should have moved several years ago as the taxes and maintenance where we live aren't supportable.
Anyways, I am just starting to re-tool the research to deal with this shock and need some guidance. IF MONEY WERE NO OBJECT, WHAT SHOULD WE DO??? MORE TESTSI??? WHERE SHOULD WE GO/WHO SHOULD WE SEE??? ARE THERE ANY NEWER TREATMENTS TO CONSIDER??? WHAT TYPE OF DOCTOR SHOULD BE OVERSEEING THIS?
Thank you all in advance as always; how do I tag Tall_Allen??? It sounds like his takes are invaluable.
God bless,
Jeri (Alice is just for here :))
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