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Many of you already know my husband has been very frail for some time. Our daughters arrived for their first post-Covid visit ten days ago and that coincided with a sudden nosedive in his already precarious health. The girls happen to be a nurse with Covid ICU experience and a emergency medicine practitioner in A&E. They have nursed him 24/7 since they arrived and yesterday we all said goodbye as he died at 3.15pm on Friday 29th October. He had his family here together for the first time since he became really unwell at the start of 2020. It has been a long hard road but we have emerged from the tunnel - and there was an exquisite sunset yesterday evening which Esca said was her father heading off. Later we raised a glass of prosecco to him.

I will be quiet but not absent - I have read all the posts, just not necessarly replied. I will be back soon.

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Koalajane

I am so very sorry to hear this. I am sure he is in a good place and so pleased that your family are with you at this very sad time. My very best wishes go to you and your family x

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jinasc

I had a brandy and raised my glass as the sun went down and said to myself " David was quiet, but he left a legacy which will not be forgotten by the many who have benefited from his research into heart illness". I will miss that gentle unassuming man who loved his bacon sandwich.

Be proud of what the four of you have given and keep on giving so freely. The world would be a worse place without you. xx

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notalot in reply to jinasc

I am so sorry to hear of your loss my condolences to you and your family xx

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DorsetLadyPMRGCAuk volunteer

❤️….I’ve said my piece privately, but you know where I am and my thoughts are with all of you.

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MrsNails

Thinking of you Pro 💔

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Billiebobdog

So very sorry for your loss but so glad you were all together

Sending you all heartfelt condolences. I shall look to the sunset and think of you all tonight.

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Katkin1

I'm so very sorry to hear of your sad news PMRpro. You have been such an amazing support to me (and many others) and now you need to take some time for yourself. Thinking of you. xx

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Predderman2020 in reply to Katkin1

Yes. Seconded. Thank you and so sorry x

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Broseley in reply to Katkin1

Echoes my thoughts exactly. Take care x

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AyJayBass in reply to Broseley

Me too.

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SnazzyD

🌅

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Brixhamhampster

Pmrpro I am so sorry to hear your news and no words can match what you must be feeling. You have helped so many of us through our bad times and now is the time for you to take care of yourself. Lindsay.

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Charlie1boy

I am so so sorry to read your news. You have been, and still are, such a strength to so many of us on this forum.Our thoughts and prayers are very much with you at this time.

Paddy

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herdysheep

So very sorry after what has been a prolonged and difficult time. It was clear you did your utmost to keep your husband as comfortable as possible and tackled the daunting elements of your medical services with the tenacity you always advocate on here! So glad Nat and Esca were/are with you. Please give yourself whatever time you need. We will all understand and hope to give you support as you have given us. With love. Jenny

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Nextoneplease

I am so sorry to read this PMRpro, but so glad your girls were there. You are such a steadfast support to others, now you must take some time for yourself. Heartfelt condolences xx

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podo

Sorry to hear your sad news PMRpro. Your support over the years has been incredible, we are all here for you.

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Choco-Holic

Heartfelt condolences to you and your girls x

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Maisie1958

I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. I am glad that your girls have been there to support you both. Please take time to care for yourself. Irene x

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11caroline29

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this sad time. xo

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Joanbill13

So sorry to hear this. I thought you had been quiet lately. How lovely to have your girls with you and their expertise. How lucky they were able to be there in time. Love the sunset scenario just beautiful. All the best to you xx

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Seacat30

Keeping you and all the family in my thoughts. Glad he had such a beautiful final sunset.

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SanG55

So glad you felt you could share this with us all. Sending love and healing vibes to you and your daughters and anyone else who may need them xx

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altywhite

I am so sorry to hear this. It was good the family were together. Take care. Linda

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TheMoaningViolet

I am so sorry for your loss. What an amazing gift for all of you to be together at this time; it must be such a solace to have your daughters with you. My thought are with you and your family.

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hiandri

Very sorry to hear your sad news, our thoughts are with you. We all appreciate the selfless support you have given over the years, take care. John Oliver NZ

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redruth123

Condolences to you and your family PMRpro. What a comfort it must be for you all that you could be together and that your husband was so very well cared for. Thinking of you very much.

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Rymer

My thoughts are with you.

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IzzysGran

Deeply saddened by your news, but happy that you were all together at the end. My warmest good wishes.

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Pixix

I had noticed your absence & missed you, but sadly I guessed it was connected to your husband’s health. I’m very sorry to read this & send my sympathy to you & the girls. I’m glad they were there with you. Take care, & take your time, please. He’s now at peace, but a very sad time. S xx

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Estellemac

I will raise a glass to celebrate your husband’s life. My thoughts are with you during this time. Best wishes to all your family.

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Rache

Was aware of your absence and suspected it might be this. Glad you were all together at the end. My thoughts are with you xx

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Evercurious

Sending my sympathy and love. So glad your girls are there and were able to help you both with his last journey.

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Suffolklady

Sorry to hear the sad news. My thoughts are with you sending my condolences. 💕

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Purple-Owl

So sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you.

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Poshdog

I shall raise a glass to all of you tonight when the sun sets. I do not know you personally but count you as a best friend and feel for you as such. Much love Alison

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123-go

Dear PMRpro, I'm so very sorry to hear that your husband has passed away and send my sincere sympathies to you and your family: they will be a great comfort to you.Time now for you to take care of yourself and when the time is right we will all welcome you back with open arms and hearts.

Lots of love xxx❤️

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FnF36

So very sorry to learn of your husband’s passing. Our condolences to you and your family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Bcol

So sorry to hear your news, but so pleased that all the family managed to be there to say goodbye. Sincerest sympathies to you all. You have spent many year4s looking after all of us, so now is the time for you to have some time with you and the family.

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Slowdown

Heartfelt hugs to you, our stalwart PMRpro who has seen us through so many of our personal crises with wise words and humour during your own stressful times. With love, gratitude and deeply felt condolences to you and your daughters - I think there will be many a glass raised this evening in shared sympathy.❣️

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Mojobumble

Just seen this Pro. So very sorry for your loss and sincere condolences to you and your family.

You have many friends and acquaintances on this site so you just need reach out if you need.

Take care

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Twopies

I’m tearing up as I read this, please know that our hearts are with you and yours.

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Topcar

So sorry to hear your sad news ,but what a blessing you were all together for his final sunset, my thoughts are with you all and look after yourself as you looked after him and still found the time to listen to all of us too x

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SheffieldJane

DorsetLady very kindly let me know. I am so sorry for your loss and am so glad that you were altogether and with him when he died. You have looked after him so well. When my time comes I hope it is as perfect. You will be in my thoughts. Sending love and hugs. 💜

The sunset was such a special gift.

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Mcdurmott

Dear PMRPro—Sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your husband/father. You were always there for us when we needed you most and I hope we can help you a bit with our caring support now. Take care and find strength in each other.

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Lone_gardener

So sorry to hear your sad news , what a lovely send off and glad your family were together. All good wishes x

Dear PMRpro. I am very sorry to read your sad news. I am new but I send you my love and support x

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bright-horizon

Heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You are amazing to continue thinking of us on the forum at this difficult time. I’m sure everyone will only want you to be with your family and look after one another.

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Thelmarina

My dear Eileen I am so very sorry to have your news. You are such an extraordinary and generous person, and have had so many difficulties that you have faced with tremendous courage. So important that all the family were together, makes such a difference. Some tough times ahead but it does get better. Much love Hedli

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Rugger

I am so sorry to read your sad news. I am sure you will feel comfort in the fact that your daughters cared for him so well when he needed it most. You have had to shoulder the burden of his care, but now it is your time to start to recover. Sending sympathy to all the family. xoxox

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humlies

dear PMRpro - thank you for this poignant, sad but also amazingly beautiful story. I am so glad for the "coincidence" that led to your daughters being able to care for your husband and be with him when he died. It sounds as if in some way you are already at peace even in the sadness, and next time we have prosecco we will drink to you, who help so very many people, to your daughters and to the memory of your husband. With much love.

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Pt4rmigan

So sorry to hear of your loss

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pinks33

I am so sorry for your loss. Words are never enough, but I hope you can take some comfort from knowing so many of us on this forum are thinking of you at this sad time.

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Mimievie

Thinking of you all at this very sad time. May your husband rest in peace 🙏😢

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Marymon

So sad for the loss of your dear husband and father. The sun never sets on those we love 🌄

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Blossom20

So sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you love and best wishes.

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aladymo

My heart aches for you. It’s so very difficult to lose we love. Sincere condolences to you and your family.

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Lambethwalker in reply to aladymo

Feeling sad for you, PMR Pro, you who offer so much help to others. I wish you much comfort.

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singingloud

My heart goes out to you and your children. Rest and take comfort with your family.

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scats

So sad to hear your news, my thoughts are with you and the girls. You spend so much time helping others, now is the time to make sure you care for you own health. xx

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Aeronwen

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and your daughters x

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Kendrew

I've sent you a PM but just to say you and your family are being held in so many of our hearts right now. We've leant on you so much. Now lean on us if you need to.Wishing you comfort and peace and sending condolences and much love to you and your family. ❤

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MamaBeagle

Just sending 💕

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Longtimer

Such sad news, but heartening that your daughters were there for you both....Thinking of you......

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Bronni

So sorry.

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CarolF1312

So sorry to hear your very sad news. I'm sure your dear husband took great comfort being surrounded by his loving family during his last days.We all miss your wisdom on the forum but please take time for yourself. Sending love and hugs.

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Telian

I had noticed you were absent and I’d wonder if it was your husband. I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family. It was lovely that you were all together at the end. Not much else to say except thinking of you all. Feel so sad for you. No need to reply. Take care. 🌺

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Hoofprints

I am so, so sorry for your loss 💐

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Musicals1

So very very sorry to hear your very sad news will be thinking about you and your family 🌻🌺🌸🌼 xx

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karegodd

So very sorry for your loss. He was wrapped in love by you and your daughters at his physical end. 🌅

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Karenjaninaz

My sincere condolences. Caring for a dear one such a long time is like walking through fire. I wish you and your family comfort and peace.

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CarysL

My condolences, so very sorry to read your news, my thoughts are with you xx

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RoadTrip

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.

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HappyDiamonds

I am so sorry to read this Pro, I had noticed you had been quiet so guessed something wasn't right. So glad your daughters were with you to be able to comfort, help and support. You give so much to others and now is the time to put yourself first. Will be thinking of you.

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Pongo13

Sincere condolences to you and the family x

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Lafontainepam1

I am so sorry for your loss. Thankful your family was all together, now you will continue to struggle on with PMR and the new adjustments you will be going through. You are so important to all of us, and always ready with a reply even across the pond to me in the US.

Hugs sent to you from me💕💕💕

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cycli

I hope the number of posters showing their concern, care and love for you and all you have done for us is some comfort in this moment . David will be a loss to you all but what he gave to the world is lasting testament to a good man I wish I had known.

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ClarkB

So very sad and it’s hard to find words at times like this. it must have been a great reassurance and comfort for you both, to have had your daughters there with you at this time. Time now for you to be with your girls. ❤️x

Sending my sincere condolences to you and your daughters at this sad time. Take care of yourself PMR Pro.

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Purplegloss

So sorry to hear of your sad loss PMRpro .

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Mstiles

I’m so sorry for you loss PMRpro. Condolences to you and your girls. What a blessing your girls could be there. 💖🥰

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123mossie

Sincere condolences xxx

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pal-o-mine

So sorry for your loss. It is heartbreaking to lose a loved one, but at least he had his family around him when he passed. My MIL passed last month, on her 93 birthday, and my OH had not been to see her since Christmas because he is shielding and because she was in hospital at the end. I'm sending you and your family all my love.

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Freshmimt

Deepest condolences to you and your dear daughters, take care of yourself, much lovex

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piglette

Dear Eileen, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I feel I have got to know your husband quite well in cyber space over our PMR years, so I really feel quite devastated. With love to the family who have supported him so well. Thinking of you all. xxx

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ValleysBoy

So sorry to hear this. Please accept my condolences. I am glad you were all together. It will take a long time to come to terms with sadly. Will be thinking of you.Steve

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fmkkm

💐💕

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HeronNS

❤️🌻🌹

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May10

I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.

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Exhiker

I'm so sorry for your loss pmrpro. I send my condolences to your and your family. Much live and hugs at this sad time. X

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Exhiker in reply to Exhiker

Love, sorry. X

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Carriemetz

Bless you all, Pro. So very glad you were all together.

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suzy1959

I am so sorry to hear your news, but glad that your family were all together to be there for him and for each other going forward. I did not know him, but I have benefited so much from your knowledge as well as how much you have shared it with the rest of us.

Please take whatever break you need and come back to us when you are ready. Xx

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Ansteynomad

So sorry to read this. My best wishes to you all x

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SallyLeon

I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. Please take the time you need to heal and know that this community is wrapping you in a large hug. x

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bussell

Dear PMRpro, guessed something must be amiss from your recent silence. Thank you for sending us that beautiful piece giving the sad news . Losing your best beloved is the hardest thing, and I am glad you were all together at the end. My heartfelt sympathy and love albeit at a distance. Will be thinking of you at sunset this evening. Hugs.

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Omanain

My husband died 20 years ago from lung cancer. He had been ill for a long time and I thought I was well prepared for his death. I was quite shocked that I still had to go through the grieving process!! Give yourself time and space for this and I add to the many others my very best wishes and thanks for all you hard work. Take care. Kate xx

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Constance13

I don't know what to say! There is nothing I can say!

You are in our thoughts. xxxx

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Smithson

So sorry to hear this, sending condolences to you and your family.

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Highlandtiger

So sorry to hear of your loss but so very glad the girls managed to be there with you both. Please take care of yourself. x

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bakingD

Oh my gosh am so sorry to hear of your husband’s passing- you’re amazing on this site and am sure also in your husband’s lifetime and ailing healthThinking if you and am so glad you have family with you xxx

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Marlenec

Very sorry to read your sad news. 🌻

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Joaclp

PMRpro, please accept my sincerest condolences. JoAnne

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STRAPCOL

Dear PMRpro, I just saw your post now and I was so sorry to hear about your husband’s passing yesterday. I am not a regular on this site but I have been aware from early on of your continuous selfless dedication to helping others with PMR. I can almost identify with your loss. My own wife died on the 29th of October 2016.

I would like to thank you for your support on more than one occasion when I have posted on this site.

I wish you and your family peace and comfort over the next coming weeks and months.

STRAPCOL 301021

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Ana-16

Sincere condolences x

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Rose54

I am so sorry Words are not enough

You will feel peace that you were all able to spend that precious last few days together.

I know what you mean by the sunset

With Mum it was a sky full of stars never seen so many in the sky at night before.

Take Care and God bless you all

Rose

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Linny3

I was truly saddened by reading your news. May God be with you during this very hard time in your life.

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maxismall

As someone you have helped very recently, I am humbled you should do so during such a life-changing time. You are a very strong woman. My heart goes out to you. xx

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Rosbud

I am so sorry to hear your sad news but I am so pleased your daughters were there for you both , Angel hugs to all of you x

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Tarym

So sad to hear the news, I’d missed your input and wondered if something had happened. It’s a tough time, (I know only too well), my thoughts are with you and your family.

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Conundrum

Sending love and hugs along with deep condolences 🥀🕊

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Grammy80

I'm thankful the girls were there for both of you and that David is at peace. 💖

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Frewen1

Dear PMR Pro, in the year I have « known » you, your wonderful writing here inspires, educates, informs, amuses and is generally a massive safety blanket for so many people here to depend on. I am so sorry to hear your news, and marvel again that you’ve been keeping us all going during such a difficult time. Sending all possible warm and supportive thoughts to you and your family. Love. xx

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Lutra2

Very sad to hear that. You've helped me and many others. I'm glad your family is with you.

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saunders123

I'm so very sorry to hear your sad news.Sending love and condolences to you and your girlsJean x

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Rudilynda

Sorry to hear your sad news. Sincere condolences to you and your family x

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GrannyDi

I am so sorry for your loss...I hope all the lovely things that have been said in these replies to you can give you some comfort....D

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Darlingbuds1

So very sorry for your loss. Sending hugs

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JGBH

You are in my thoughts. It is so good your daughters are with you.

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joyce69

My deepest sympathy to you and your girls. Sounds like the perfect way to leave this earth x

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Constance13 in reply to joyce69

That's one thing that must be helping Pro at the moment. The fact that both their girls were with her (and David) when the inevitable happened.

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Hollybee21

So sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your Family.

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Tinasleepyhead

My heartfelt condolences to you and your daughters, take care of yourself 🌹xx

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Melti

So very sorry to read this, and thinking of you and your family. From your wonderful posts I almost feel as if I know your husband. X

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alliebc

So good to have your daughters there to help you care at the end of your husband's journey. You have helped so many of us with your wise words, you must realize how many supportive thoughts are winging your way from around the world. I'll watch the sunset over the Pacific tonight and add my strengthening thoughts.

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powerwalk

So very sorry to hear that. XX ❤️

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El50

So very sorry to hear of your sad loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Rimmy

So sorry PMRpro - no words can suffice - but thinking of you ... XX

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squashie

As there has to be an end it is good that it happened as it did. My belief (as an atheist) is that our afterlife is in the memories of those we knew. I'm sure that your husband will have a long one. Your support to this community has been remarkable - I trust we can repay you in kind.

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Prahran

So very sorry to read this. What a lovely piece you wrote. Please accept my condolences.

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IslandShell

Take Care PMRpro, he must have been a wonderful man. The world will miss him.

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Queenie1901

So very sorry to hear your sad news. What a wonderful support it has been to have had your daughters with you over the past days so together you have been able to share your husband's care and all be together as a family. The love, acts of kindness and words of understanding from those near or far will be the nuggets of gold which will give you the support and strength that you have freely given to so many others. Take care.

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AussieKid

So very sorry to hear of your loss. Maybe if you find yourself sitting near a tree or fence at sunset don’t be surprised if a visiting bird stops ever so briefly to say hello. Look after yourself xx

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Chrisellie

So sorry. X

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agingfeminist

so saddened to hear your news. You are the most amazing support to this whole community...all I can do is to send you (and your family) wishes for strength during this difficult time.

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Janstr

Very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you

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Plantmad

I am so sorry to learn of your sad loss. He is in a better place now and I am so glad your daughters were there at the end. You must now take care of yourself as you have shown care for others, myself included, for which I am always grateful. Sending love and wishing you well.

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diana1998

Sincerest condolences to you and your girls. May your dear husband RIP. Take care ❤️

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Mack100

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

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7Angie3

I am sorry to learn of the loss of your husband...sending love and sympathy to you and your daughters.

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Louisa1840

Dearest Pro. I am not surprised by the number of replies your post has received. You have given so much to us with your ever-ready help and advice. Now we grieve with and for you. May our love and sympathies enfold you as you travel the next part of this road called life.......

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2013mayo

My dear PMRpro, I am to very sorry to hear the sad news. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Please take care.

🌅💔

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Nolsie

So sorry to hear about your husband, PMRpro. Thinking of you and your family.

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Iloveholidays

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. Glad all the family were together. Look after yourself and allow yourself time to grieve. You are such a huge support to us all, hope we can support you now.

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Booboos171

So very sorry to hear this. Pleased that your girls were able to be with you both at this sad time. Take great care of yourself x x x

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Liby57

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time x

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Manchesterlady

So very sorry to hear this . My deepest condolences to you and your family x

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JanboC

So very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. xx🙏🙏

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SusyTe

So very sorry to hear your desperately sad news. A blessing that you could all be together in your husband’s last days, I am sure that brought him much comfort to have his loved ones with him. Thinking of you and sending you love. ❤️ X

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Piano247

I am so very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. xx

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Casia

Heartfelt condolences to you and your daughters. X

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kipsky

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

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Sally001

I am so sorry for your loss. i am glad that you are surrounded by family at this difficult time. My prayers are with you. Take care.

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jan484

I am so sorry for your loss, wonderful for you to have your girls with you both for the last days. I hope the girls are able to look after you too for a while at least. Many thanks for all your advise and help over the last few years.

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Reeceregan

It sounds like he waited for his girls so he could say goodbye. My mother did the same. And then they go peacefully on. Thinking of you PMRPro, take all the time you need. X

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Geordieland

Sending much love to you and your family 💙

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Herman99

My condolences to you and your family and I will say a little prayer to get you through this difficult time. x

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Meggie22

So very sorry to hear the sad news of your dear husband may he Rest in Peace. Pleased you had your family with you x

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Katiecatweazel

Dear lady, my very sincere condolences and I am glad your daughters and you are able to share your grief. With many thanks for letting us all know your sad news.With kind regards, Shirley

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Tapestry1057

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news…..my thoughts are with you and your family.

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Jane-s

So sad that to hear this news but so good that you were all together. My sincere condolences to you all.

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Gaz227

Deeply sorry for your loss, thoughts are with you and the family , take care .

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Rosshigh

Hi PMRProI am so sorry to hear your really sad news. That is so sad but glad your family were with you both.

My thoughts are with you all and I am sure he is now at peace.

Take care of yourself. With love xx

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Lonsdalelass

Oh, so so sad to read your post PMRpro. I had noticed your absence on the forum and was hoping you were OK. Although you've had a very hard time, it would have been wonderful and comforting to have you all there together as a family, and your husband would have loved that. Take as long as you need before coming back here. You've always been here for us and now we're here for you. Sending many virtual hugs and prayers. X

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Jemsea

PMRPro My sincerest condolences to you and your girls. Wonderful to have your girls there by your side at this very sad time. God bless you PMRpro. You are a legend on this forum.

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sampete

So sorry for your loss, its quite obvious your husband waited to see his daughters for one last time. Now he can rest in peace.🙏 ❤️

Thinking of you and feeling so sad that you and your family are going through this.

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Abbey17

So sorry to hear this. Sending lots of love to you and your family 💜X

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Jackoh

I had wondered. Missed your contributions. So sorry but his suffering and frailty is now over. So pleased that as a family you were all together and they were able to support you in his last days. You support so many others I’m pleased you were given support in your time of need. Take care. Much love xx💐

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Fireleigh

I’m very sorry to hear that. You have my sympathy.How fortunate the girls were there. Nevertheless there will be a gap in your life which

I hope you will be able to fill in the long course of time. Fireleigh

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Betty_H

I have missed your wise comments of late, and was unsure why. I'm glad that your daughters got to be with you at his passing. It's a very hard thing to go through by yourself. Take the time to care for yourself, and know we are all a comment away. Love and condolences to your family. Betty

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GrandmaPirate

I feel so sorry for your loss and wish you and your whole family a lot of courage and hope all good memories allow you to go on. Your work for all of us is so important and your husband must have been very proud and happy to share with you his life and last days. Thank you so much!

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ChinaWuntoo

Very sorry to hear of your sad news. You give so much to this Forum and it's obvious you give so much to your family. Thank you. Take time for yourself.

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Looby60

So so sorry to read this . No words can express what you as a family are going through. Draw from each other’s strengths.

Although I don’t know you , you have always been here to help us sufferers with good advice .

It’s time to put yourself first for a while .

Take care .

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Sangu1

I’m so sorry to hear this news. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

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Janann25

I just want to echo everyone’s thoughts - I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that you will be able to take some comfort from the fact that you were all by his side as he left you. Now, please look after yourself.

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Suffererc

My thoughts are with you all in this sad time

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Pris80

So sorry to hear this....and glad that you have your children to support you. I'm sure you will all have some great memories of him.

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Sandradsn

So very sorry for your loss,thinking of you and your family x

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casca312

So very sorry to read this. My deepest sympathy to you and your daughters at this very sad time.

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Reddev

So sorry. 💜

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mcbouchon

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family

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1602

Prayers love and heartfelt understanding to you all xxx ❤️

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cisy

Sending strength and condolences to you and your family at this sad time 🌻

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Coffeebeans

So very sad for you all PMRPRO but very glad you were all able to be together.

Whilst I know my words won't change a thing but I am thinking of you and sending love.

Kath x

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greengages

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you and your family x

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Viv54

I am deeply sorry to hear your news. we will all talk again when your up to it. However long it takes. With my regards to you and your family . Sunset is a beautiful time of the day. Viv🌷

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1964-karina

So sorry for your loss 💔

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Terrier61

So sorry for your loss,your support has been invaluable to all of us .Now take time to be with your girls thinking of you at this sad time 💜

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Marijo1951

I can only add my condolences to the rest - obviously the world has lost an exceptional individual. Come back to the forum when you're really ready and not before. We shall all welcome you back.

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9lives

I am so very sad to hear this and my heart goes out to you and your family, he was surrounded by love and kindness, your girls sound like angels xxMy thoughts and prayers are with you xx

Carole xx

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Predsharer

So sorry to hear this sad news, but so good you were all together at this time.

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Moviemiss

So sorry to read about your sad news. Take care.

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Jones3

I'm so very sorry to hear this. I also add my heartfelt condolences to you and your daughters at this very sad time. Take care and only come back when you are ready.

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CathyM64

So sorry to hear this PMRpro. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time x

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prunus

Thinking of you all and very much feeling for you. I will say a prayer for you all. x

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Viveka

I had missed you. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time. I am adding to the waves of loving energy sent by your friends on this forum. X

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Decsgran

So very sorry for your loss.

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Marcy47

So sorry for your loss. Thank heaven you were all together at the time. Sending you and your daughters love and and hugs. xxx

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Tonkinca

So sorry to hear your sad news, My thoughts are with you and your family x

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FRnina

Such heartbreaking news...take your time to grieve and be with your girls and shared memories of a loving partner. Thinking of you.

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Loyd

Thoughts with you. A sad time.

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DDKRM

I’m joining the many others whom you have given help to in the past in sending you heartfelt sympathy.

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alvertta

Thinking of you at this sad time.

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Lizzery

I’m so sorry to read this. Lovely that you were all together as a family, to support each other at this sad time. X

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Vaggers

So sad to hear this PMR. Thinking of you all. X

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Francesbarbara

So very sorry to hear that your husband has died but wonderful that you were all with him. It must be what all of us would wish for at the end. Do try to put yourself first now.

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s-u-e-1

Sending our sincere condolences to you & your daughters along with thanks for all you have done and continue to do for us in this group. I’m so glad your girls got to visit. 😍😍

Thinking of you. Love and condolences to you and your family x

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Bee2222

I am so very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you all. So glad you could all be together.

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Maudie19

My deepest sympathy.

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keeptalking

Sending love to you all. 💕💕

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Shiba64

So sorry hear to hear your sad news - my thoughts are with you and your girls at this sad time. Sending ❤️

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Theziggy

So sorry for you loss.

My thoughts are with you.

Stay strong x

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Zanthy

Deepest Sympathy PMRpro to you and your family I do not write often but read often Zanthy

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hurryupharry

I am very sorry to hear your sad news.

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Benos123

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and may he Rest in Peace.

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Poppylop

I'm so sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your daughters at this very sad time x

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Fallingapart0627

So sorry xxx 💕

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90planetree

Just heard the news and wanted to send my condolences & best wishes to you & your familyat this sad time.

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bBarnabus

My heartfelt condolenses

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Primrose2

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. With best wishes x

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Spittal9

I’m so sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourself and I’m glad your family was there with you and him.

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BPlady

So sorry for your loss, and my thoughts and best wishes for you and your family.xx

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York54

So very sorry to hear this news . I’m glad you have your family around you for support and that your daughters were able to see him before he passed away. Sending you my best wishes and a huge hug.

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Dpoine

You are in my thoughts and prayers PMRpro.

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Suet3942

So sorry to hear your sad news. I'm glad your girls were with you both and you continue to draw comfort from each other. May he rest in peace. X

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Italigirl

So sorry to hear of your loss. You and your girls are in my prayers.

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Hildalew

So sorry to hear your news. All my sympathy to you and your family.

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scottygirl73

Thinking of you at this difficult time with love and prayers.xx

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Snnib

Sending hugs

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HalleysComet

So sorry to hear about your loss. Take your time to mourn and be thankful your family is close. My thoughts are with you.

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PMRGCA19

Dear PMRPRO

I have just read your very sad news and send my love and prayers to you at this difficult time.

You always give such helpful advice and am wondering what you would say to yourself in this situation.

Take care: may God bless you and your family at this time.

Evelyn

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sparklin

Eileen as you already know how sad we all are about David passing. It is wonderful that your two girls are here with you.

Eileen we all love you and reading all the lovely replies here for you proves how loved you really are. You gave so much of your self to so many.

I remember the first time I met you and David and I was so impressed by you both.

Once again we love you

sparkly flowers
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oscarandchloe

So very sorry for your loss. Care for yourself as you have cared for us and your husband. Thinking of you.

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Mirrordinghy

So sorry to learn this. My thoughts are with you and your family. I've not been on the forum long, but can already see what you have given it amd am grateful. Thank you for letting us know.

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Blackcat1M

Oh I am so very sorry for you sad loss, I am glad you had your family with with god bless 🙏

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ImC_

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. You are such an invaluable support for the many people on this forum, I hope that somehow you can feel us, collectively, here for you. Treasure the sunsets and the memories.

I am so sorry to hear this PMRPro. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time x

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sharpiggy

So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

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bonio

So very sorry to hear your news but am sure he is now at peace. Very good that both your daugthers were with you at this time and able to help and spend time together. Sincere condolences to you and your family now you need to try and take time to look after yourself. x

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Heron82

Thinking of you all at this awful time. Bittersweet that you were all together after so long apart, but wonderful that you were all able to care for and be with him at his passing. Sending you all strength, support and love for the days ahead.

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artisam

So significant that your daughter's were there - he will have had a peaceful passing. Take time for yourself now, you are loved by so many.

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Bloomsbury123

Sending love to you and your family. It is a blessing that you were all together to say goodbye. Thinking of you ❤️

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Artandpoetry

So sorry to hear your sad news🤗

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PMR2011

May family, friends and memories provide comfort. I did not know him, but it sounds as though he will live on in the hearts of many. You are so giving, remember to allow for extra care for yourself during this time. Warm regards.

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Croft9232

Along with the many others, I send my love and Condolences to you and your girls xMargaret.

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ChrisinNam

Dear PMRPro, I have nothing to add to what has already been said. We're all thinking of you, especially those of us who have already gone through this. XXX

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Rottsuzi

So sorry thoughts and prayers and with you and your family 🙏❤️

You loved him well during the long last part of his earthly journey. Now he no longer has any pain just peace and joy. I am so sorry.

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Chrob

Condolences to you and your family.

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Lilly-Gee

Sending sympathy to you and your family x

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jayemmemm

So sorry to hear your news. Please accept my condolences and very best wishes.

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Pippah45

Very sorry for your loss but how lovely that you were all together - it makes all the difference to have family there. You are in my thoughts.

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Canarylady

So sorry to hear your sad news about your husband.I hope you are coping well as can be,it must be lovely having your daughters with you.

I wish you well and send you a lovely warm hug.

Love

Ruth

Xx

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BronteM

So very sad to hear your news, and send you my deepest sympathy. . But what a blessing that you were all together, especially after the problems of the last eighteen months.

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S4ndy

My condolences to you and your family. It is really a privilege to be present when a parent dies. So glad your family had that time together. So sorry for your loss xxx

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AshPen9

So very sorry.

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Sorop

I am so sorry to hear of your loss and we send our condolences to you and your family. I cannot express enough how you have helped me over these last years even though I do not post much I read posts nearly every day. Peace be with you. 🖤

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Horsewhisper

My heart goes out to you and your girls at this very sad time, so lovely that you were all together at the time of his passing. ❤️

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Sharitone

So very sorry for you and your family.

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Elor

So sorry for your loss x

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AyJayBass

So sorry to hear this news PMRpro. God bless you as you grieve.

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Nightingales

So very sorry for your loss. How wonderful you were all together.

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Saxsoprano

Sincere sympathy for the death of your husband. Look after yourself and know you will be held in the thoughts of many of us on this forum.

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Bennijax

So sorry to hear this. May you have abundant strength and love within your family and friends, and too, from the PMRGCA family who value you hugely.

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VAl4266

God bless you

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Loopy65

So very sorry to hear this news. Prayers for comfort and peace at this time for you and your precious family. Thank you for letting us know ♥️

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Roltuba

Very best wishes, so sorry to hear your sad news. Look after yourself.

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Cherubim

So sorry to hear your sad news, you will be in my prayers.

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jenerino

So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you. I went through the same five years ago. You have my love and understanding xxxx

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Poppy_the_cat

Carissima,I am so very sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family at this very difficult time.

I shall be thinking of you.

You are in my prayers.

Poppy the Cat

😔

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Mary63

So sorry….Thinking of you all. 💕

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Jankie

I’m really sorry to hear this but so glad you were altogether Thinking of you and condolences to you and your family xxx

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Dorothy61

So sorry to hear this sad news. My condolences to you and your family.

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Vawils

Peace to you and your family.

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Stellamavis

So sad to read this news today PMRPro..sending my condolences to you and your daughters my thoughts are with you all..take care xx

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Jonimoroni

I’m so moved by your beautiful and evocative writing. Your acceptance, and the moments of stillness with your daughters, feel so true. Love, thanks, and my deepest sympathy. x💐x

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Gunflash

Dear PMRpro,I was so sorry to hear about your very sad loss. I am so glad your family are around you at this time, both my wife Jean and I send our deepest sympathy.

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JanetRosslyn

My heartfelt condolences x x x

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Tiggy70

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that he spent his last days surrounded by his family who love him so much. You are in my thoughts and prayers 🙏xx

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GratefulBailey

May all the beautiful memories of your dear husband bring comfort to you and your girls. My deepest sympathy.

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DianeA1

Dear PMRpro, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. All the best, Diane

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Alchemy8

So deeply sorry PMRpro. You have such powerful and loving support from all of us on the forum. Bless you and your family and may you all continue to be held in the beautiful sunlight that you witnessed that dawn.

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Lyndalou62

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family x

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pegpowell

I noticed your absence and hoped you were well. Death is devastating even if expected.

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Mgt1234

Offering up prayers for you and your beloved family. 🙏🏻

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kimsaunsc

So very sorry for your loss.

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Bagadash

Sorry to hear your news but it was good that you were all together.Condolences and best wishes to you.

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Pr0jection

So sorry to hear the news. Condolences to you and the family. Thank you for letting us know. xx

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Golden20

I’m so very sorry for your loss lovely lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dear family. Heartfelt condolences. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

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birdseed

Heartfelt condolences to you and your family .

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Hunter134

Oh dear my sympathies are with you at this time.I am happy your family surrounded you and your husband at this sad time.Its going to be a huge change in your life and I can't imagine how I"d cope.My prayers for you and your family💕

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Artnmusiclover

God bless you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all x

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Summerrental

My sincere condolences to you & your daughters. So sorry for your loss!

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Bobbury

I'm so very sorry for your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. Please take time out for yourself.

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7Louise

Oh PMRpro, my sincere condolences, As an Empath, I truly believe your husband’s comfort and love from his family being together again, served as a long awaited gift, and he could return to a peaceful spiritually loving place, until you meet again.

Bless you all, the sunset was a beautiful sign of his love to you, Treat yourself with kindness during this difficult time. 🌹

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liz6620

PMRpro - So sorry to read of your loss. My condolences to you and your family. I hope you gain some comfort from the support offered here by all of us.

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Umufu

Dearest Pro, so very sorry to read this. But what a wonderful blessing that you were all together during his last days. He has been waiting for his girls to be with him and taking care of him in his greatest time of need. xxx

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petros31

My heartfelt condolences to you and all the family, and all good wishes for continuing good health for you and your daughters

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katiemills

I’m so very sorry to read this . My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time xx

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readingbooks

I am very sad for you all. I support all the responses of our Forum Family. The skills of both your daughters suggest that their helping and caring lives come from their family, you and your husband. And so it goes on.

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Seabyrd

So sad to read this..My husband is still recovering from Covid since December...it's a mean disease for compromised people..prayers for you and your family !!

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KellyInTexas

We will raise a glass to him and your family here in Texas. Warmest of thoughts to you all.

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apttony

Just come on line. So sorry to hear of your loss. Take care. x

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Manchild

So sorry for the loss to you and your family.

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SueMacD

I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you and your girls can find some comfort in your happy memories of your beloved husband. X

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kmeikle1

I am so sorry for your loss, and I appreciate your note of explanation. There have been many times lately that I've read a question and then looked for your response without finding one. I'm thankful you were supported by your family through this time.

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SpuddyVM

Thinking of you and all your family and sending heartfelt condolences

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kulina

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Asbeck

I'm so very sorry, PMRpro.

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jsretaw

So sorry for your loss. Heartfelt condolences and prayers for you and your daughters.

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Pangolin43

So sorry for your loss xx

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LCfan

So sorry for your loss. Warmest thoughts to you and your girls.

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Slosh

I am so very sorry for your loss. I am pleased that your daughters were with you both. xx

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Bridgetofar

So sorry for you and your family what a comfort it must have been for you to have your family there.Take care and be kind to yourself.x

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chammy

I am thinking of you all and send sincere condolences. I hope you will take care of yourself at this difficult time. Your hard work on this forum is much appreciated.

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design2021

How wonderful to have such a supportive family who were able to be there with you both. Sending best wishes to you all at this sad time.

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Tylluan

Adding my deepest condolences to all the others. What a blessing that your dear husband had his family around him. x

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Bachfugue

I was so sorry to hear your news. And being together as a family in the way you described will, I hope, bring you comfort as you go forward. From what you’ve said in your (excellent) posts you were a formidable team during a long, successful and respected career. Sending warmest wishes to you all.

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marigoldb

Thinking of you at this sad time, but so thankful you and your daughters were with you and your loved one, as the sun set. After a long time of caring, now it’s time for others to care for you. And that can be hard to accept!!Also time to share many memories of the 4 of you, with your girls. I’m sure he was so proud of them.

Sending love to your family, Marigold x

Thank you for all you do for us on this forum, please take a well needed break

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Lochy

I have been thinking of you all day since I read your message this morning. I’m afraid I haven’t got the Prosecco to toast your husband but I am sipping a Sherry in Edinburgh after having watched a stunning sky over the bridges, towards one of your daughter’s home (from memory) thinking of you all. Your daughters will be a tremendous support to you and I’m sure you have wonderful memories to share. I know you are a virtual friend but you have made a very real difference to my life and I wish you have time to grieve and let those around you care for you. Take care. Kirstin x

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Harbel

I am so sorry to hear your sad news and my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I am not good at it but I will pray that you can find the strength and support to carry such a heavy burden.

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pomeranion

My heart hurts for you. I know it is part PMR and recent loss of husband of 50years but I couldn't stop my tears. Thank God your family was there with you. Such a great comfort.My prayers are with you all.

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IdasMum

So sorry to read this. Pleased he and you had your daughters there. Thinking of you xx

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KinnearD

Condolences, dear lady. You have been a great blessing to me navigating PMR these past three years. Time for you and yours now.

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seamaid

I am so very sorry to read of your loss, time now to look after yourself and family. my thoughts are with you. x

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Cannes4me

So very very sorry for your loss, thinking about you and your family.

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Nagswoman

Beautful post. We are all thinking of you. X

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Molymath

I am so sorry to hear of David’s death. I remember with great fondness the day we spent with you both in Calgary just a few shorts years ago. You are very much in my thoughts. Big hugs to you, Sheila

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Seraphina56

So sorry to hear your sad news. You’ve helped me and others so much, I wish I could do something to help you. Come back soon.

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Spotteddog

Thank you for sharing your sad news with us. What a blessing your daughters are. We are truly blessed to have you and your wisdom on this forum. Take care.

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ALeCount

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband. What a gift though, that your family shared this time together and that his girls were able to care for him during his last days. Sending the gentlest of thoughts to you and your family.

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Songbird69

So so sorry to hear your sad news. Sending love and hugs. 🤗❤️ xx

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Legsy0714

My sincere condolences PMRpro. There has to be an end and it's good that the fates at least allowed your husband a departure in the bosom of his loving family. David Levin

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Viola1

I am so sorry for your loss; it was good that you were all together. We miss you but want you to take whatever time you need.

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watercolours

I'm so, so sorry at the news of your dear husbands passing💕 Such a sad time however I'm sure you can all take solace that you were all together and I'm sure your daughters were happy to be able to nurse him through his illness once there and to be there to support you too. Take all the time you need. Sincere condolences to you and your family💕

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Skinnyjonny

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your girls. I will raise a dram of whisky to David. Take care xxx

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51Highland

Many others have said it all. But you and your family are in our thoughts at this very sad time. What a lucky man he was to have enjoyed such a loving family. I’m sure he had a wonderful life with you all. And now his fear and suffering are at an end. Thank you for all you are doing for so many of us. You are a special person.

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Buttonshutton

I'm so genuinely sorry to hear this. You are a massive help to all on here. If we can reciprocate in any small way. Take care to you and your girls xx

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Lanakay

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Just want you to know how very much your comments and suggestions have helped me.

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Fergyfish

Sending a virtual hug....

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Katietee

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very sad time. Take good care of yourself and keep safe. 💐

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TooSore

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for peace and comfort during this difficult time.

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Adults2Kids3

😪😪😪

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blueisgreen

Sad and very sorry. Take care and thank you for all you do for us.

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sireda

Dear PMRpro,So sorry for your loss.

For the last six years you have been my support as I navigated though PMR. I have been one of the 'lurkers'. - reading but not entering, gathering knowledge, mainly from your posts.

My blessings to you and your family.

Arva deRis

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arvine

So sorry to hear such sad news, my condolences to you and family

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gaqke10

So sorry. Take all the time you need--we will survive.

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Leilagirl

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You are a special light to all on this site.

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Ciar

Such a sad story, but good that everyone was there. Thank you for all you do for us PMRPro.

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Stanca

So so sorry to hear this. He wrote to me a few times and we chatted more since he discovered my Italian connection ( I am Italian) . He was a lovely lovely friendly person and always replied to everyone within a very short space of time . I will remember his kind and wise advice . May he rest in peace . Thank you for letting us all know on this platform . I sure shall miss his good words . Best wishes to you all xxxx

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Meggsy

Dear PMRPro, love and peace to you and your family. 💕💕 Marea in Aus.

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Ronswife

My prayers c for family at this sad time. Thank you for c always being here for us.

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cuttysark

Sharing your own personal trials and advice with us along this tortuous road over the years has been massively appreciated and helped so many of us. Thank you for all you do and have done and take all the time now you need.

That special sunset was no coincidence.

God bless,

Cutty xx

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Deeroy2015

So sorry for your loss

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Dontwannabesick

Thoughts and prayers are with you

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Dorsetgirl17

Yes, had missed your helpful replies over the last few days. So sorry to hear your news and it was fortunate your daughters were to hand. Having 358 replies to date gives you some idea we do appreciate you.

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Fran_BensonPartner

Dear Pro, so sorry.

It has been a long road. He's at peace now. Love to you all x

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NickWarwick

I guess 360 replies says it all, as to how many people you have helped. My sincere condolences too x

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Trulyscrumpious

So very sorry for your loss. We all owe so much to you. Thinking of you and the familyx

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Pollyanna16

As so many people have said before me, I am so sorry to read your news today. Bless you. Be assured we all wish you a quiet time to recover & hopefully the girls are still there too.

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Elispeth

I am so very sorry to read today that your husband has passed away. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family at this time x

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Elispeth

I was so very sorry to read that your husband has passed away. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family at this time x

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MarkWin

I am so very sorry for your loss but glad your family could be with you both at this tragic time. You have been the most inspirational guiding light for us as we all tread this tricky path, and I am glad that you are taking precious time for yourself. I wish you strength in your grief, and hope that you and all your family, may have the time and the peace to reflect on your husband’s wonderful life.

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Danda99

Thinking of you. You help so many others and we all now send our love and support x

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mgrogers99

I am happy your daughters were with you. May you be blessed with good memories.

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venezia1

So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you.

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Macas

I am so sorry to hear your very sad news. I send you love and special thoughts.Mary

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Visby

Sorry for your loss condolences to you and your family x

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Frenchduck

I just want to send you and your daughters my condolences. Reading your post filled me with emotion even though I don't know you or your family. I am sorry that you have lost a lovely husband and father and I know the wonderful memories will live on. This forum is unique as it helps people come together as a family through the experiences of their illnesses and you are a big player in keeping this family together. I don't have much to say myself but I read most of the posts and I am forever grateful to you for the knowledge you continue to share every day. Thank you, take care and hear from you soon.

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Macas

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. Sending you love and special thoughtsMaryx

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Denorrton

I am very sorry for your loss. Kindest wishes, Margaret

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dougy8419

So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your families to have comfort.

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Gypdyp45

May God Bless you & help you through this grieving time.

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Jan_Noack

So sorry to read your news, my deepest sympathy to you and your girls. So glad you were all together. You and your family are in our thoughts

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PredAgainJersey

Dear PMRpro,

At a time like this, there are no adequate words - even though so many of us on this wonderful Forum wish so hard that we could find them.

As one poster said, you are indeed a legend here.

And that’s because you have given so much for so long.

I track my Pred via a spreadsheet, and to one side of the spreadsheet I have a selection of ten or so pieces of your advice with each statement cut and pasted into its own box. That way, I can easily refer to advice of yours covering all aspects of PMR as they apply to me.

It has proved a godsend to me, but it is there only because of the wonderful advice you have laid down over such a long time.

My respect for you has developed over time to where it is now, and I can’t imagine that it could be higher.

All of which makes my loss for adequate words all the harder right now.

My wife died in April 2018. Her illness meant a slow but steady decline and, finally, she took her last, tiny breath in my arms.

So I know something of how it is.

I am so glad that your daughters were able to be there. That is something I am glad about for your husband, for you, and also for them.

I am but one of a huge number whose life has been touched for the good by you. I shall be grateful to you for the rest of my life.

I send to you, and to your daughters, all the feeling that is possible - and all the hope that is possible for you to somehow bear this with the fortitude that I know you have.

With grateful thanks to you at this sad time,

PredAgainJersey

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Gcastudent

So sorry to hear such sad news. I'm glad that all the family were able to be together to support him and each other. Thinking of you. Maggie

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PMRnewbie2017

Bless you E. My thoughts are with you, F

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LindaB-66

Sending my condolences to you and your family. Take care. X

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softekcom

Very sorry to hear this. Sending you and your family sympathy, strength, and positivity.

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Odosmum

So sorry to hear of your trouble. It must have been a blessing to have your girls with you, after such a long time. My love and thoughts are with you all x

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katie-w53

Oh PMRPro, I have only just seen your post. I was so sad to hear your news, but incredibly moved by your beautiful description of your husband's passing. How extraordinary that your daughters were there and able to care for him in that way. As many others have said, you are the "glue" that holds this wonderful forum together, and I too have benefited enormously from your words of wisdom over the past four years. My thoughts are with you.Kathryn

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GrannyJane

Just read of your sad news. Love and prayers to you and the girls, stay strong together.🙏x

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grannyouch

So terribly sorry for your huge loss. After all the help you've given us, please know that we send you love and care and all the support we can give from a distance!

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Whippetygirl

Thinking of you and your family at this very sad time.xxx

I am so sorry to hear this. But how wonderful that your family was there. Hold onto the memories and be kind to yourself. x

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Miserere

My sincere condolences - so glad you were all together. Thinking of you.

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Cyclegirl54

Very sorry to read your sad news. Take care and deepest condolences 🌸

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tangocharlie

I hope it's of some comfort to you to know so many hundreds of people care about you and are grateful you're here for us. Lovely that you had a happy life together for so long x

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Jeze

I am so sorry for your loss, sending much love to you and your family.💕💐💐💐

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Pamk1949

So sorry for your loss, PMRpro — my thoughts and prayers are with you

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Poll8

Not been on this forum long, but already been helped by your sensible advice on a couple of occassions.Time now to care for yourself and your 2 obviously wonderful daughters. Take time to heal. My prayers are with you x

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MaryA_

My condolences to you and your family

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WeAreAllMutants

My heart goes out to you and your family. For you to continue helping us PMR sufferers while soldiering through the loss of your husband is remarkable. Best wishes and please take care of yourself. You are a rare gem.

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Skysey

I am so sorry PMR pro to hear your very sad news. Such a relief that your lovely family were there with you at that time. Thinking of you. Xx❤️

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autumnlass

I have only just seen this Pro, and I’m so very sorry 😢 to have only just seen. Thinking of you and your family at your sad sad loss 💔.

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Stickgal316

My condolences to you and your family. Take care of you. Everything else can wait.

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Raven1955

Though we will never know each other outside of this forum I've felt that I've gotten to know you a bit over these past years. I was truly saddened to read of your husband passing away recently. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and my prayers for you and your whole family. May the Lord bless and keep you all through this hard time of adjusting life. What a true blessing for your daughters to be able to see your father before he died. A real gift for your husband, your daughters and you. Oh, and THANK YOU to your daughters for all their front line work in their occupations. Take care.

I've only just seen your post and so very sorry to read you've lost your dear husband. Wonderful you have your daughters support.

My very best wishes

Anne

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jessiem

So sorry to hear this - sincere condolences to you and your family.

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Nap1

My dear PMRpro. I had no idea. I’ve been away from the world mentally for sometime because of my significant others health. So I went on the back burner. Not a good thing to do. I am so sorry PRO and this was probably a Very difficult Christmas for you. I am glad your children were with you. I hope you Can you stay with us you are very important to all of us. And especially when I say we couldn’t have gotten through this without you. I will try to stay on top of health unlocked difficult right now. I wish you all the health and happiness you can find in this world today. Marilyn USA

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Nap1

I'm not intending going anywhere ;)

Deeply saddened, my condolences and prayers for you both.Richard

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Ronzy

So sorry to here , all the very best ,you are such a caring lady 😘👩‍👧‍👧🍀🍀

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bunnymom

Just saw this sad news. So sorry for you and yours. ❤️

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