I just want to thank everybody for their advice, good wishes and prayers regarding the post I did a couple of days ago about my son Garry’s 2nd cancer diagnosis. I seem to have deleted it in error. I was trying to edit it as per a post I saw about who could view it, and tired and stressed as I am, managed to delete it. The trips everyday to the hospital is 5 hours round trip and parking in London hospitals are very limited. My husband doing remarkable well though getting us there and parked. Only a few more pallative radiotherapy sessions left and then hopefully we can all have a few days resting. Once again thank you all, I cried reading them knowing there is always somebody to listen. The most distressing part is that in July he had a scan and radiographer reported and we were told all was ok, only to find that 4 months later when he had another scan that the first words out on the surgeons mouth was “ why did you not deal with it 4 months ago”? Was also told that this cancer was operable on the first scan. I feel so cheated at this, as this lack of reporting correctly what was shown on the scan,means that now the cancer has spread and it is inoperable it will cost my son his life now. No apologies even from anybody at hospital! Just told Protocol’s will change and it won’t happen again! Too late for my son! Feeling depressed,and so very very sad.
Thank you for prayers for Garry.: I just want to... - PMRGCAuk
Thank you for prayers for Garry.
❤️ So sorry - my thoughts go out to you.
Somehow that makes it even worse, Linda. So sorry. ❤️
Oh that is awful for you, I am so sorry ❤️
I just wanted to reach out. No words are adequate. I don't know what to say save for I'm so sorry. The fact that the doctors missed this 4 months ago is absolutely horrid. I cannot imagine your pain. I'm so sorry.
So so sorry Linda.
This is terrible Linda I am so sorry, my heart goes out to you.
Surely this is negligence and when you are strong enough you will have grounds for a formal complaint.
My dearest darling. Sending you so much love. Xxxxxx
So sorry. My thoughts are with you and your son. Sending you love and strength. X
You must be so angry and despairing at this cavalier attitude. I am so sorry that this has been your experience. You are all still in my prayers.
I cannot imagine how you are feeling....and then to find that out.....it makes me feel so angry....it's shocking......one day when you feel able, a complaint must be made, but for now, I hope you can keep strong and well for your son....thinking of you.....
So sorry. ❤️
Linda I am so sorry xxx
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Linda, I’m so sad for you and your family that you all have to go through this. There’s nothing I can say or do except, as with everyone else, love and prayers.
Oh Linda
That is so awful! Thinking of you all 🙏🏼💕
Linda, my heart truly goes out to you and your family. You, Garry, and your husband continue in my prayers. 🙏
Dear Linda, thinking of you, your son and husband with great sympathy and many prayers.
Oh Linda I am so sorry. Thoughts are prayers going your way. Xxx
I can't imagine what you're going through.Praying for you all xxxx
You are in my thoughts xxx
So sorry and so angry for you ,Prayers for you all .
Dear Heart, ......as a mother, I understand the primal grief you must be experiencing.
I lost my son a year ago, and there are no words that express the magnitude of sorrow.
Please know we are here, and will continue to send our prayers to you and your family.
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I am so sorry that you too have had to endure this terrible nightmare. I have to remain strong to get him through this as he lives with me and has cognitive problems too, and needs a lot of support right now. As you know it is so hard. Take care also, as I am sure the grief never ends.
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I have no words ........praying for you .
My heart goes out to you. Remember we are all here for you at any time xx
Sorry to hear of your horrible news, when you feel up to it you must complain. At least that way you know you'll be ensuring the safety and lives of others. Sending prayers for comfort and know you are not alone xxx
What a lot you are having to deal with. Keep looking after yourself in all this as you will need all your strength and courage. Your son is lucky to have you looking after him and caring for him so well. My thoughts are with you and your family. x
So sorry Linda, there are no words for situations like this are there? You are both in my prayers!xxxx
Oh Linda that is outrageous and no response of regret from anyone? I am so sorry for their mistake. We will all be praying for your family. ❤️
To say this is tragic isn't enough. Total incompetence and a travesty. It's impossible to imagine the host of emotions you and your family are feeling. My heart goes out to all of you.
Awful ,awful ,to have this happen . So sorry .
I am so very, very sorry.
This has to be the worst thing any mother can endure. My heart breaks for you 😢, Bronni x
Cannot imagine what you are going through Linda. Sending all my love to you and your family. When you feel strong enough I would put in a complaint, it is negligence I'm sure. I think you have upto 3 years after. I know that this is the last thing on your mind at the minute. But don't let them get away with it. xxxx
My heart is breaking for you and your son. You are in my prayers 💔
Oh Linda how awful to find this out on top of everything else. You must justifiably be very very angry and let down. Maybe you might want to “park” that for the time being and put all your energy and care into Garry’s situation at the moment. Do look after yourself as well- that’s a top priority. Come back to the “parked” bit when you have the time, energy and opportunity. Keep us posted. Keeping you in my prayers. Much love xx
So very sorry.
Please take care , you and your family are in my prayers .
When you want any advice or help with what you need to deal with in the future , I am sure there are many here who could guide to the right health advocates to deal with your obvious case of neglect of care.
But in the meantime , it is all about concentrating on your son , your selves and getting the most happiness out of the small spaces of time between therapy.
And for that we are all sending you what strength we can share to help get you through the day.
My love , Bee xx
Your post is heart-wrenching. I feel your sadness. Sending big hugs and the very best of everything that life has to offer.I so hope the family issues get sorted, esp. for the childrens' sakes. x
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