Hi everyone
A lovely lady on the forum gave me the name of a doctor/surgeon who specialises in Pudendal Nueralgia, unfortunately for me he is in the States but still a very interesting watch/listen too on this 2.5 hour interview on you tube, he also has a clinic in Poland. I believe you can do video appointments with him.
His name is Dr Micheal (linked video below) he talks through just about every procedure and situation regarding this condition a wealth of information!
I had never heard of using suppositories either for pain relief and hope this can help someone out there too.